Our Little Catholic Corner

St. Agnes' feastday and some stash bash fun.

2012-01-21T14:08:00.000-08:00

ST. AGNES’ Eve—Ah, bitter chill it was!

The owl, for all his feathers, was a-cold;

The hare limp’d trembling through the frozen grass,

And silent was the flock in woolly fold:

Numb were the Beadsman’s fingers, while he told

His rosary, and while his frosted breath,

Like pious incense from a censer old,

Seem’d taking flight for heaven, without a death,

Past the sweet Virgin’s picture, while his prayer he saith.

By Keats

Hello there on the feast of St.Agnes! St.Agnes is one of the virgin martyrs mentioned in the mass and just happens to be a patron saint of mine.

After mass we had some lamb cake. (this cake mold has become handy on this feast day and on Easter;)

We colored some pictures of St. Agnes and I hope to read the story of her life to the kids.

On to other news. I have started off several times to write up a post, but I can't seem to fit in the time. In fact, now, I might have to get off the computer because the baby is fighting sleep and Mary finds that sitting right behind me on the computer chair is the place to be:)

I do in fact think of many things to blog about (especially while washing the dishes) but the time passes and ....well... you know.

Crunchy Catholic Momma was/is hosting a stash bash to use up your leftover craft items to make something new.

Well, my old tiered skirt decided to get a hole in it. Of course I have to make that into a dress. Like I have said before using an old tiered skirt takes half the work away! You already have the hem done, the tiers are in and it's all lined.

As you can see here I cut the skirt basically in half. The bottom half I use for the top of the dress. (this is the only part of the dress that I will use a pattern for)

Here it's cut and here's the bottom half.

Using the pattern for the top only.

It's not perfection, but it's a perfectly good play dress and I think even a trip to the store dress. I might add some pink bias tape to the bottom. It's not quite finished as you can see( do you see the elastic waist peaking out there?). I am super excited that this tiered dress had an elastic waist it totally cut my gathering time down.

and now the back. I used the snap buttons from an old maternity shirt. I simply clipped the band of material that held the snap tops and snap receivers.

I think I paid 2 dollars for the skirt and the blouse was throw-away worthy, but I salvaged the button area (used the pockets in a different dress if you remember).

If you are afraid to sew, this dress is the one to do! The material is cheap and chilren generally look cute and anything and don't mind being a "guinea pig" as mom learns to sew!

I hope to write soon. God bless you.

Calling All Mother's who have had C-sections!!

2012-01-11T12:11:00.000-08:00

Hello!! Have any of you had a c-section?

I have not experienced this. I have a close friend who needs some information, advice, suggestions and most importantly advice.

She is very welcoming to life and wants above all do God's will. She is asking for information on strengthening the uterus (red rasberry tea is not working for her). She has had three c-sections and wants to make sure her body is in top shape to welcome as many blessings from God as He deems fit.

I have read that kegal exercises are good and vitamin C.

Do you have any suggestions or advice on strengthening the uterus or your thoughts on this matter? What have you gone through? Do you have a blog of your own that talks of this? Do you have any spiritual advice you can give.

Thanks in advance

Prepping for Tomorrow's feast day of the Epiphany

2012-01-05T14:50:00.000-08:00

Tomorrow after Mass we are heading for a park play date with the cousins to celebrate that feast day.

Of course the wise men brought gold. So, chocolate coins were a must!

Frankincense and myrhh....well Frankincense is a perfume and myrhh is a spice used for burial, a very aromatic one(a spice given to the Divine infant that would give a hint at His destiny).

How about making some potpourri?

I went to Target and bought two boxies of potpourri.

The boxes were marked on clearance for $2.50. My mom will bring some cinnamon sticks and rose petals to add to the mix.

Using a handkerchief as a cutting guide and a new flat sheet (from walmart about $3.00) I will cut out at least twelve squares.

Mary tried out this idea for me and she did enjoy adding and sniffing all the different smells (well actually, they all smelled pretty much alike). I would love to one day get some drops (if they do sell them) of frankincense to add.

Now add a ribbon and voila!

My sister hopes to make some Three King bread and I am wondering if I should make some sugar cookies in the shape of a star.....hmmmmmm.

Wishing you a happy holy feastday. May we all like the wise men adore him on bended knee. Don't forget to get some chalk and have it blessed! Remember to mark your door posts.....for the Epiphany Household Blessing.

Feast of the Holy Innocents (first martyrs of Christ)

2011-12-28T12:00:00.000-08:00

Jeremiah 31:15 Thus says the LORD, "A voice is heard in Ramah, Lamentation and bitter weeping. Rachel is weeping for her children; She refuses to be comforted for her children, Because they are no more."

And today we celebrate those very precious lives of the babies that died as King Herod savagely sought out to kill the Christ child. Recommend your children to these holy babes, and of course pray to end abortion.

(as I am sure Our Lord after the gates of heaven were opened by His Supreme Sacrifice delivered these babes immediatly to His Kingdom. I am also sure that Our Lady holds a special tenderness for those mothers that lost their dear little ones.

In some parishes the priest will, after the last gospel, bless the children. If you are unable to do this, below is the blessing the Father (head of household) gives the children.

The father of the home should formally bless the children. A common way of doing this is as follows:

Father:
O Lord, hear my prayer.
All:
And let my cry come unto Thee.
Father:
Let us pray. O Lord Jesus Christ, once Thou embraced and placed Thy hands upon the little children who came to Thee, and said: "Suffer the little children to come unto Me, and forbid them not, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven, and their angels always see the face of my Father!" Look now with fatherly eyes on the innocence of these children and their parents' devotion, and bless them this day through our prayers.
The father signs the forehead of each child with holy water.
Father:
In Thy grace and goodness let them advance continually, longing for Thee, loving Thee, fearing Thee, keeping Thy commandments. Then they will surely come to their destined home, through Thee, Savior of the world. Who lives and reigns forever and ever. All:
Amen.
Father:
May God bless you. And may He keep your hearts and minds -- the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit. All:
Amen.

And here is the conventry carol that is for the feast of the Holy Innocents. In my opinion a very haunting melody.

It is named after the city of Coventry, England, where the 16th Century Pageant of the Shearmen and Tailors depicted Herod's slaughter of the innocents, told in the lyrics.

1. Lullay, Thou little tiny Child,
By, by, lully, lullay.
Lullay, Thou little tiny Child.
By, by, lully, lullay.

2. O sisters, too, how may we do,
For to preserve this day;
This poor Youngling for whom we sing,
By, by, lully, lullay.

3. Herod the King, in his raging,
Charged he hath this day;
His men of might, in his own sight,
All children young, to slay.

4. Then woe is me, poor Child, for Thee,
And ever mourn and say;
For Thy parting, nor say nor sing,
By, by, lully, lullay.

If you would like to hear the coventry carol

There is an ad before the song that you can skip.

Note: A Novena to the Magi in anticipation of the Feast of the Epiphany is also often begun today ending on January 5th.

Send Christmas card to blind Chinese pro-life dissident

2011-12-22T21:32:00.000-08:00

Last week actor Christian Bale drew attention to the plight of Chinese pro-life dissident Chen Guangcheng, who was previously jailed and is now under house arrest for documenting forced abortions and sterilizations in his country.

This week Women’s Rights without Frontiers, a pro-life group that has been trying to help Chen, announced it is launching a Christmas card campaign to support Chen.

more...............

Chats with the littlies

2011-12-21T09:38:00.000-08:00

Sunshine "I am going to get married one day."

Nature Boy "Not me, I am going to be a bug collector."

Me "Oh yeah Sunshine? Who ya going to marry?"

Sunshine "I don't know yet, I am just going to find the prettiest girl I can find and...if she is not married I am going to marry her."

Later.......

Mr.Lashes "Mom, you feed Angel "Mommy milk?"

Me. "yes."

Mr. Lashes "How do you feed him orange juice?"

Having fun in the kitchen

2011-12-18T15:55:00.000-08:00

First of all Dad, if you are reading this I am sure you will catch on. Yes, indeedy I set about making some caramels. My Dad loves caramels. I thought to myself, "Josette, you really should make dad some caramels for Christmas."

First you take some sugar...and more sugar and some corn syrup.

(I wince...I hate to use corn syrup. I had dabbled at the idea of making it with honey, but then I did some research and it didn't seem like it was going to work out...but I have made peanut brittle with honey and that worked out. Hmmmm. Have any of you made caramels with honey instead of corn syrup?)

Then add cream and butter you start to boil it. Stirring constantly. The candy themometer needs to read 245 degrees or soft ball stage.

It's really starting to pick up now!

Then pour it into a 8X8 pan. I place parchment paper in the bottom and liberally buttered the whole pan and parchment paper.

Once cool, cut into squares. My caramels were on the hard candy side. I would prefer more chewy.(I think my themometer is off, it didn't even register 245 degrees but I eyeballed it and took the pan off the heat) They still taste amazing, but still....Might have to try it again:)
These await some cut up piece of wax paper to wrap them. Won't they look amazing in a gift basket?

Now on to more fun. Christmas cookies. I have to tell you. I was having fun with these.

I made the dough the day before. Once the littliest of littlies were napping we could begin the cookie decorating. So, after a bike ride and some exploring (brrrr it was cold today)we set out making them. Mostly, the kids dumped a bunch of frosting on their cookies, used every sprinkle I owned, licked the top of the cookie clean and ran off to enjoy a movie (today is movie day).

I just might have to make more....I am having so much fun doing these!!
I think this year also calls for Russian teacake/Mexican wedding cakes. I might even be able to make these a bit more healthy.

Somewhere over the rainbow...

2011-12-12T22:28:00.000-08:00

A little girl turned 2. This little girl especially likes to sing a song from "Signing Time" called "Do you know the colors of the Rainbow?".

Well, I just had to make her a "rainbow cake". Of course, if you look, you will find it on the web. I found several "rainbow cake" ideas. The one I liked was very simple, by making a rainbow cake in a pyrex bowl. However, I did not have the one mentioned, but I did have a 1/2 soccer cake mold. Voila!

You start off with on box of cake mix. Probably white cake mix would be best. I used yellow and it turned out fine. Then dividing up the cake mix into 6 parts, I colored them in styrofoam cups (actually the kids did ...while L.L was taking a nap)

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Now,here comes the fun part, adding all these lovely colours. First the red, and now "plop" some orange right in the center of that red.

Now add the yellow.

Hello Green.

Hello Blue and purple!

So, here is the cake frosted. It's suppose to resemble a cloudy day. Not a good picture, but you get the general idea.

But wait, there is more...Slice into the rainbow.....

Would you care for a piece of the rainbow?

Dear L.L.

Happy Birthday my sweet little one. What a big girl you are getting to be? You are already learning to count and I can catch you saying your prayers along with the other kids. You love your signing time and Blue's Clues. You love to be involved in what the big kids are doing and join right in their games.

We say often that you are sweet, for you have such a cute and sunny disposition. It's true you can get grumpy, but these times are rare.

Lately, you love to tell me where your eyes, nose, cheeks, head and mouth are. I love to hear you tell me this.

You have started to do "jumps", we are very impressed! And even more recently you are helping Mama make breakfast.

I love you my sweet little girl, alway stay close to Our Lady and Our Lord.

Little things do matter

2011-12-10T20:45:00.000-08:00

My God, how important even little things seem when I hear You interpret them in the light of eternity.

So often what I consider a small matter, is really big because it is a choice between my will and Yours.

Nothing is little, nothing is unimportant, nothing is insignificant in my daily life.

What I think,do ,or say ,shows what I want and what I am trying to be.

Make me more aware of Your presence in my life.

If I see more clearly, I will be more willing to forget self and to follow Your holy Will.

Grant me grace to be more for You and less for this blind unreasoning self within me. Amen.

Taken from My Daily Bread

Advent, Cake pops and this and that

2011-12-07T14:08:00.000-08:00

Wow, where does the time go? I have been busy trying to get all my Christmas shopping done (mostly online but that still takes time!)

Before I begin anything I have to show you my baby sister's cake pops. Aren't they cute? Truly, I ate one.... in one bite. (Just in case you are wondering Mrs. A I took one at the bake sale hee hee hee!)

Anyways, she has begun to sell them and I think she might get a couple of customers at least;)

So, here we are again, in the time of Advent. (Note to self: Pack Advent things in a separate box labeled "Advent" and do not store in attic)

Here is our Advent wreath (minus the candles....I am a bit behind this year and I totally thought I had some candles...I probably do have them...somewhere....)

And our nifty "walk to Bethlehem" a favorite around here.

Our lovely Jesse tree (which I really do enjoy talking about to the children as Jesus' family tree). I have added only two new ornaments this year!

Here is one ornament I added this year. (to symbolize Christ as the Light of the world and also symbolized by a rose blooming in the desert).

We are working diligently trying to earn straw for baby Jesus' crib. (this was an napkin holder I bought at a thrift store, works pretty well huh?)can you see our soft baby Jesus hiding behind?

I am getting ready for Tommorow's feast day. I received a cd of The Immaculate Conception's feast day chants, and I am about to print out some coloring pages. I am thinking of a treat too.
Also ahead is the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe. I have a few crafts that are pretty nifty and I think that day calls for some sopapillas!
I think we shall visit a local shrine and pray the rosary in her honor.

So many feast days, so little time!!

How are your Christmas preparations going? I think I am doing pretty good, but we will see shall we?

Josette's sweet and salty sweet potatoes

2011-11-22T18:16:00.000-08:00

I have posted this before.....but it's sooo good. Just an idea for Thankgiving.

Give away week at Broken fortress.

2011-11-20T15:22:00.000-08:00

Allison over at Broken Fortress is holding a give-away week. I won't lie to you I would love to win the custom "Pea pod" necklace from The Tessy tree and perhaps you would too?

Go to Allison's site to check out the details.

10 strange facts about me

2011-11-19T21:37:00.000-08:00

Bumping this idea from Debi's blog

Here are 10 things about me...you may or may not know!

1. Once, my grandma told me that I had pretty feet, after that I was conceited about my feet. My nose...that is a different issue.

2. I don't like driving to new places either! I have to print out maps too. I get nervous about the whole thing.

3.I wash my dishes twice. Yes...I know...bonkers.

4.I tend to hoard....

5. I never get the words right to a song (Hunie knows this!!)

6.I have a great memory for names.(people names)

7. I have an awful memory for languages

8. I hate to shop (except online;)

9. If "footloose" is playing on the radio...I must dance

10. I hate Hate to lose things.

Little bits of organization, redos, and inspiration corners.

2011-11-17T15:28:00.000-08:00

Well, I finished it. The corner shelf is done. I am mighty proud. It feels so good to mark that off my list. I can't believe it took me 3 weeks to finish. I think it turned out nice.

Here it is again, a bit of a overall view. ( I am still working on the nature table, but for now I got a tablecloth on it and it has helped....a bit!)

To the right of the hutch, we have three bookshelves. On top of one bookshelf (far right) goes our morning work. The Bible, catechism, Saint book, and a story book are there. There you will see the Angelus bell, which we must get back into the habit of praying!!

The middle shelf is my display shelf. This month I have displayed pictures of loved one deceased and also books about the first pilgrims. I am going to look for a nice frame so I can have them arranged better.

This shelf is a little messy, and I need to organise it better, but since it changes out each month I am not sure what to do.

The last shelf is part of our "art center". I am using a idea I saw featured on "Wildflowers and Marbles" and I love it. Basically, it is just a stocked shelf full of art supplies (art supplies that I am comfortable leaving out!).

I stock it with paper and colored construction. I have a drawer with scissors, gluesticks and doodads. I also put a basket at the bottom for art they want to save. (later I transfer this to a big clear tote). The scissors and glue can not be reached by the littliest of the littles. I have colored pencils, crayons, coloring books and bits of paper that might be nice to use. I also have envelopes and stock paper so they can make their own birthday cards and thank you cards.

Paints, clay, beads and such I keep in a cabinet in the kitchen. With my kids so close in age it's hard for me too keep a close eye on all 5 of them doing these projects at once.

You can see we have a small table placed next to the shelf and since I have made this little corner, I have seen a "Jump" in creativity!

I keep an eye out for art supplies that go on sale and try to keep the shelf stocked with art supplies. I do splurge on the nicer pencils and paper. They each have their own "art" book.

Children in Purgatory

2011-11-14T13:05:00.000-08:00

asked: “Will I go to Heaven?”
“Yes, you will go.”
“and Jacinta?”
“She will go too”
“and Francisco?”
“He will also go, but he has to pray many rosaries first.”

If Francisco had not prayed the many rosaries would he have gone to purgatory too?

We don't know. But we do know God is merciful. Purgatory is God showing us his mercy. Before we go to heaven to see God, we must be totally cleansed. If we are not, or have some faults, we must first go to purgatory. The duration, depends on each person. Only God knows and He is just.

Think of it as taking a bath before meeting your King.

Here is a prayer for Children in Purgatory (to be recited by children)

Perhaps by your efforts and of course your children's effort you can help release some children's souls that are in purgatory.

This is a corporal work of mercy. For the poor souls are completely helpless! (as St. Thomas Aquinas says)

Then there are other benefits. You and your children will have befriended many souls who once they reach heaven will pray for you!!

Sweet Saviour Jesus, Who during They life didst show such great love for children, we who as children share with them Thy blessing, beseech Thee to open the gate of heaven to our companions who are lamenting in the place of sorrow and penance. Grant also their protection to us, to our relations, and to our common father, the Supreme Pontiff.

Holy Virgin, good Mother, pray for us and for the children who suffer.

Hail Mary.....

It's midnight...and little Angel won't sleep

2011-11-12T23:09:00.000-08:00

I am a bit slap happy right now. I actually had to put Angel down and let him cry it out a bit. I will check on him in 15 minutes.

I have tried everything...all my tricks and talents at getting a baby to sleep are not working.

So, I went and had a snack and decided to let you all know about it.
*yawn*

Geez, he is only 5 months old...he should be tired by now. He did take a 2 hour nap around 7:00 this evening...but still.

Morning will be here before I know it. Have to get everyone up and dressed nicely for catechism and Mass. Maybe I can get a nap tomorrow. Keep your fingers crossed.

More rainbows in the bathroom and a Thanksgiving tree

2011-11-08T08:00:00.000-08:00

You remember the rainbow art in my bathroom right?

I wanted the kids to draw their own rainbows so I could hang them up in the bathroom.
I found some bare frames at Hobby Lobby, (Hobby Lobby doesn't open on Sundays neither does Chick-fil-A)

I finally got these finished. Yes, can you believe it's taken me that long? I had to paint the frames, cut out paper to fit, have the kids draw the rainbows and string some ribbon through.

I decided to hang them in between the towel hooks. The picture on the far right was readjusted...I know you see it ...how can you miss that it's a tad bit lower than the rest!

The kids were delighted that "they" decorated the bathroom.
Nature boy's and Sunshine

Mr. Lashes and Mary

L.L's

I was over at Artful Homemaking and really like her idea of a "Thankful Tree".
So using our advent tree I wrote our thankfuls on these foam leaves and pinned them on the tree. (this tree is proving useful for both advent and fall decorating!)

As you can see some of the "thank you's" are very childlike,but none-the-less very grateful!

well, I best get. This weekend gardening!!

and walked no more with Him

2011-11-06T21:10:00.000-08:00

Then Jesus said to them: Amen, amen I say unto you:Except you eat the flesh of the Son of man, and drink his blood, you shall not have life in you.

He that eateth my flesh, and drinketh my blood, hath everlasting life: and I will raise him up in the last day.

For my flesh is meat indeed: and my blood is drink indeed. He tht eateth my flesh, and drinketh my blood, abideth in me, and I in him.

As the living Father hath sent me, and I live by the Father; so he that eateth Me, the same also shall live by me. This is the bread that came down from heaven. Not as your fathers did eat manna, and are dead. He that eateth this bread, shall live for ever.

These things he said, teaching in the synagogue, in Capharnaum.
Many therefore of his disciples, hearing it, said:This saying is hard, and who can hear it?
But Jesus, knowing in Himself, that his disciples murmured at this said to them: Doth this scandalize you?
If then you shall see the Son of man ascend up where he was before? It is the spirit that quickeneth: the flesh profiteth nothing. The words that I have spoken to you, are spirit and life.

But there are some of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning, who they were that did not believe, and who he was, that would betray him.

And He said: Therefore did I say to you, that no man can cometo me, unless it be given him by my Father.

After this many of his disciples went back; and walked no more with Him.

Then Jesus said to the twelve: will you also go away?

And simon Peter answered him: Lord, to who shall we go? Thou hast the words of eternal life.

I just bought this cd, "Our Hidden God" from our bookstore and I think it is great. Though it's not a children's cd, it captivated my little ones and I as well! We listen to it in the car (hey, perfect time to go over catechism right?)They have asked to listen to it about four times. And no, my children aren't the quiet sit still type at all!

I was also looking at their other cd labeled "Under Mary's Mantle".

Just some ideas I thought I would suggest for Christmas.

Last year, I had masses offered for god-children and god-parents. There is another suggestion for you all!

happiness in a jar

2011-11-03T08:25:00.000-07:00

Here's an idea you might like.

Using a jar that held a yankee candle (the scent...lemon cupcake..love it). I decorate the now empty jar with some vintage looking stickers (found in the scrapbooking section at Target).

These stickers were half off and I just loved them right away!

I decorate the jar. Then I cut up some scrap booking paper in small squares. (this scrap booking paper was made to look like stamps and I thought I go along with that and it came out cute).

(Once a long time ago I did scrap booking, but now it's so much easier doing it digitally with shutterfly or picaboo!)

When the littles do something cute or say something funny I will write it on a square and place it in the jar. A little jar of precious memories!

I made one of these for my mom last year. I would right down things the kids would say about her like ," I love going to Grandma's house or She makes the best pancakes". I gave it to her in another empty candle jar. I simply place a gold ribbon around the neck of the jar.

What could be a better pick-me-up then opening the jar and reaching in to pull out a bit of sunshine? So, much less dangerous than a ...jar of candy. Which I wouldn't mind either! ha!

The reason for my rudeness

2011-11-02T15:53:00.000-07:00

The reasons I do not answer the phone during the day;

1. I am homeschooling
2. I am cleaning
3. I am cooking
4. I am organizing
5. I am praying
6. I am playing
7. I am reading to the kids
8. I am doing laundry

And most of all I do not answer the phone, because I will not be able to give you my undivided attention. You were sweet enough to call me and I want to hear what you have to say. I can't promise that I will hear all that you have to say. You might hear me stop our converstation to reprimand, console, counsel or even change a diaper. (if you don't mind I don't either ;)

So, if you need to ask me a favor, leave a message. If it is detailed send me an email. If it's an emergency, 10 to 1 I will hear it and pick up the phone right away.
If you leave messages, I will listen to it, ponder it and be able to answer back intelligently.

If you are a sales person that comes to my door. Please leave me the information and I will read it in my quiet time, and get back to you if I am interested. Please don't pressure me to make a decision. (I won't do it without consulting my husband) Please don't ask me to donate money until I can read about your "cause" and see if that is where I want to donate my money.

I I do not volunteer as much as I would like to, it is because I would need someone to watch all my lovelies...so, why don't I just watch them myself and you volunteer? Better yet, you volunteer with the "hands on" and I will stuff envelopes, make calls (at night) and pray for the cause.

I do not have company often. I get bossy, I get nervous trying to get everything ready, and in the end I really don't like myself. (this of course excludes family, you are welcome always!! You have seen my mess before!)

I do not have playdates or go to them. I just don't have the "time". You have to factor in "get ready time" "drive time" "Play time" "drive home time". Maybe in the futrue but right now, it's not going to happen.

Rhythm of our lives

2011-10-30T16:47:00.000-07:00

I was just looking at some past blogs posts around the same time last year. How the years tend to repeat themselves in all that we do.

Of course we had to get our pumpkins. No less than six mind you. They are all sitting on the back porch, carved, smiling and lit up each evening until they start to shrivel!
(the pumpkin seeds are waiting for me to roast them....)
I love our yearly trip to the local nursery, there they have a small pumpkin display. It takes us nearly an hour to pick out our pumpkins.

Tonight is the All Saint's day party. This year I didn't have a hand in organizing it. The date was changed and whatnot and I couldn't commit to a weekday, then it was changed to a Sunday. By that time, we decided to go ahead and let someone else plan it.
I don't think I will enter the kids in the contest. I didn't prep them well, and I don't want them to feel anxious. They should be having fun.I have to admit in the past I really wanted them ot win. I would even try to sew costumes that would "take the cake". One year the three boys were the three wise men. Boy, those were cool costumes.... Another year I went Old Testament. Mr. Lashes was Joseph in his coat of colors and Nature boy was King David in his youth complete with harp, sling shot, and lamb.
Last year, I finally asked myself, "do they really care about winning or is it for me.?" I had to admit, I wanted them to win. So, last year I let them pick their own saint which funny enough, fits their personalities.

Nature Boy = Saint Francis ( he is allowed to bring a small pet)
Sunshine = Saint Martin
Mr. Lashes = St. Joseph (with his box of tools)
Mary = St. Therese (with of course her pretty flowers)
L.L. = St. Therese's sister (so, she can have pretty flowers too)
Angel = as himself

This year, they asked to be the same saint. Fine with me!! I didn't have to scramble for time to sew up anything!!

I am working on the corner hutch. Many of year suggested dark brown to match the china cabinet I have. Well, I thought and thought about it and it didn't seem to be the right color. I wanted it to blend with the wainstcotting (there is also the fact that staining it would of been a big job) So, I have primed it, and I am sanding it down, then I will paint it. I do think it will look so much nicer than its original color.I am sanding after I primed it becomes some of the prime paint became thick in some places...

Our nourishing Traditions club went to see how butter,yogurt, and cheese was made. I got some nice pictures, however I needed more explanation and more "step by step" instructions. Thank God for youtube.

I wasn't sure if this was the yogurt!
Here you can see some butter being whipped up.

Anyhow, we did get to meet the cow who supplies the milk.

This lady is also growing own sugar cane. Get out of town!

Well, I best get. I have to get these little saints ready. Little stinkers, they were supposed to be taking naps, but I guess they couldn't with all this excitement. I wish they would of though. Today there was a high mass and a procession of Christ the King. We didn't get home until 2:00!
The party begins at 5:30. So, I have a to get going. I hope to take some pictures to show you all. God bless and happy feast day to you!

The Quarell

2011-10-26T21:30:00.000-07:00

We were on our way to church on a Saturday. I thought to myself, we should do something fun today.

"you know what would be fun to do today?"

"What?" he answered

"go bowling!!"

In case you don't know. I love to bowl.....yes siree...bowling...love it! I hardly get to go, but I tell you something, good times!

"Josette, if you want to go bowling, I will take you."

"I do want to go, but don't you think it would be fun for the kids? Besides it's such a hassle to arrange for a sitter and we would have to take Angel anyways. I bet they would love it."

"Bowling?" he said

"Yep. Bowling. It's great. We could use one of those lanes with the built in bumpers."

"I don't know...."

"Why not?"

"it's kinda boring." At this moment my dear one did not look me in the eye.(well, he was driving...but you know what I mean)

"bowling, boring? You have got to be kidding me? It's great. The sound of the bowling ball as it makes it's way down the lane, the crash of pins...!" I was getting pretty hyped up by then.

"I always thought it was boring." he tells me

"But, you used to take me bowling when we dated. You never told me this!!" I was now talking in a high voice. The children kept interjecting with, "what's bowling mom?"

"we went once while we were dating." Him so calm...

"And didn't you like it?"

"not really."

"Well, I have a confession to make too." I tell him

"You know how you are trying to go low carb. Well, I feel no guilt feeding you sandwiches for lunch." I stared at him trimphantly.

"I am so glad you can live with yourself."

Can you believe this guy? Not like bowling? Whatever dude.

A bunch of cute chicks :)

2011-10-16T23:36:00.000-07:00

The weather here is finally cooling down. (though this weekend was unseasonably warm) You know what that means...yes siree Bob. It's time to garden.

We reseeded the yard. The kids can not go out in the yard. They are crawling the walls. I.KID.YOU.NOT.

While we are waiting for the grass to come up and take root, we decided to pick up some new cuties. ;)

We have here some Andulacias (the grey and black) Some Rhode Island reds (darker red), New Hampshire reds, a couple of americanas, and two (geez I can't remember their names)but they lay a dark rubyish red/brown egg.

On Saturday I baked a heap. This is my baking day because we get a better energy rate. So I tripled a bread recipe...I am crazy and spontaneous like that. I made 4 loaves (one cinnamon swirl) and also some dinner rolls. I think my bread making skills are improving.
Also,I finally finshed my calendula oil. That is what you see in the background I was straining it.

I want to say a special Thank you to St.Therese. My sister showed up at my door with two roses. An answer to a prayer I had said only earlier that day.

I just have to tell you of a wonderful blessing God gave me. On Saturday Nature boy and I went to confession. Without saying too much and yet saying everything, I have been struggling spiritually. I have been feeling defeated. I know that we should not depend on spiritual consolations, and I admit I crave spiritual consolations. I needed some affirmation from God.

I prayed, I asked Our Lady to protect my intention of going to confession. I asked Padre Pio and John Marie Vianney to help me as well as my confessor. I asked that they be inspired to help me.

I was in line to go to confession. When a priest I have never met before told me and others waiting in line, that he was offering confession in small chapel. I decided to go with the new priest. Nature Boy went in first. Then it was my turn. There was no confessional, a kneeler was placed in front of the altar and the priest sat faced away from me and turned to the side. I was a bit hesitant, but I took a deep breath and kneeled down in front of the tabernacle, only 18 inches from Our Lord. Only 18 inches. So close to Him

I feel I can't even describe what I felt. It was like my heart opened up. The tears just poured down my face and I was able to articulate exactly what I wanted to say. The priest seem to be able to read my heart, know what I needed, and counseled me most wisely.
Do you sometimes hear something a hundred times and it never really is understood correctly and then, someone presents it again and you finally get it? That's what happened.

Even as I write this tears form in my eyes. How good God is to me!! Thank you my Dear Lord. How much patience you have with me. Deo Gratias!

love,
J

A Nourishing Traditions Meeting

2011-10-10T22:00:00.000-07:00

On the First Saturday of this Month I attended a NT (Nourishing Traditions)or Weston Price meeting.

I was so thrilled to go, and though I did not learn anything relatively new. I was inspired by one lady to renew my efforts in many things I have let slide.

I also....found a raw milk source. Yep, I am going to go for it. (Edited to add that I now have some raw milk...look at me all cute and homespun!)

Last time I tried raw milk, was when Nature boy was 2 yrs old (or three...?) and it did not set well in his tummy. I know they say that usually raw milk does not cause problems but I definetly saw problems with Nature Boy. Most of my kids drink Rice Milk, but all are fine with cheese, and cream.

Many of the ladies brought a recipe they had made from Nt (Nourishing Traditions) and got to try kimichi (which I discovered I liked!)raw goat milk and cow milk and some freshly made butter.

I brought each lady some honey. One lady asked me how can you tell if the honey is raw. I actually don't know. I do know once it is heated to 120 degrees it ceases to be "raw", but looking at it I don't know for sure.

I really did not have anything to share at the meeting. I told them my easy way at making stock.

I don't set out making stock. Basically, I have a freezer ziplock bag in the freezer and I add to it. Each time I cut up carrrots, onions, celery I take the bits leftover and put them in the back. Each time we have a roast chicken I save the carcass and put in the bag. Once the bag is full I put the contents in a crockpot, cover it in water and leave in on overnight. In the morning I drain the juice and let it cool, place the jars in the refrigerator and there you go.

Many of the ladies there are on a gluten free diet or on low carb diet. So, I shared with them my chocolate almond peanutbutter bark recipe.

When I make bread. I tend to start it around bedtime. I make up the dough. Let it rise while I am doing baths and such. Punch it down. Let it rise. Pray with the littles get everyone in bed. Then, I bake the loaf. I know I will be around the house at this time so again, I don't make it a big deal.

I think that is the trick..to make it so simple it becomes part of your life without taking over.

I did leave some of my "Wise Traditions" magazines and give out a few of my resources. ( I really hope they all remember those are my magazines and I want them back....I did place my name on all of them...am I a being weird?)

Oh, Guess what? The lady who picks up the raw milk for all us has arranged with the lady who provides the milk to have a class to teach us the fine arts of cheese making. Is that cool or what? I am more of a visual hands on learner and this my dears, is something I am looking forward to.

I guess I better get. But I would like to leave a message from Our Lord to all of you.

Remember, it's good to eat healthy, I am an advocate for natural foods as God intended them. However, always check your priorities. If making food from scratch is causing you to miss out on your spiritual life, or to be grumpy with the family, or even causing a financial riff between you and your husband...I really wonder if it is worth it? Do your best and leave the rest to God.

"Martha, Martha, you are full of cares. Do not scold Mary, for she has chosen the better prt, and it shall not be taken from her."

Shop American made (think Christmas)

2011-10-07T10:54:00.000-07:00

My sister just called me up to say that Adorable Kinders is going out of business and that their dolls are 50% off.

So, I would like to pass the word on. If you know of other American made products please send me the links too.

I hope to buy off of Craigslist for the kids toys this year. I also have been looking into etsy.

Wednesday is my catch up day.

2011-10-05T17:01:00.000-07:00

I really must remember that Wednesday is my catch up day. I must especially remember this on Monday.

On Monday the house is a disaster. The laundry has piled up. The new school week begins, and lessons, and ....I start to get edgy. And instead of using these moments to earn graces, I get overwhelmed and a bit crazy.

Today I was mopping and little Miss Mary was dusting . I thought to myself I truly must show the children to be cheerful while they work. I put on some nice music and lit a candle. Because you know, housework is a blessing.

It is a blessing? Doing the same ol' thing day after day is a blessing?

A young mother told me this once. I was complaining that the house was a mess yet again and this and that and she cheerfully smiled and said, "It is a blessing".

"Of course", I nodded my head and smiled demurely at her. But did I believe it then? No way!

Then as the years go by (and yes, it takes me years to learn things from God) I would mop, or wash, or wipe and think to myself, "it's true that this kind of work will always be there. This dishes I put away now, will be used in the next meal. The sheets I just washed will have to be laundered in a week. How can I make this temporal work eternal?

By offering it up to God. Each and everything. Each step, each smile, each dish. Then this work which seems so temporal becomes an eternal gift to God. He keeps it as such when given with love. So, even when I have to remop the floor because yet again we have mud, or wipe up crumbs, or wipe a baby's bum and I can make it worth my while.

It is a blessing, truly.

Just a question for you all, how do you make your housework cheerful? How do you make it cheerful for your children? It is sometimes hard for the little ones to understand that it is a blessing. I know my kids can see the benefits of a clean orderly home. I try to place some flowers on the table when we are all done cleaning and like I said before light a scented candle, but I wonder what else?

(disclaimer: Josette is fully aware of the fact that she can earn graces while housecleaning, but you still might find her in a grumpy state if you come to her house on Mondays.)

CandyLand Cake

2011-10-03T08:49:00.000-07:00

Ok, so this cake totally stands against everything Weston Price taught about....ahem...

We had a bit of a community birthday party of sorts, combining all the September birthdays and early October ones too. This seem to fit as they were mostly children's birthddays.

This cake is a sure winner with the kids! Easy Peasy! You could even buy a white frosted cake at the bakery and drop candy on it and there you go.

I first saw this cake on "Taste of Home" magazine and I filed the idea away to be used in the future. Since then, I have used this idea twice and both times the kids are loving it.

I will soon post about our Nourishing Traditions or...Weston Price group meeting. Now, that my friends was so cool!

Frustration

2011-09-29T07:58:00.000-07:00

My baby sister called me up the other day. I answered rather subdued.

"What's wrong?" she asked me

"Oh nothing." I replied

"What are you doing?"

"just sitting, reading a book."

"you're sitting? Reading? In the middle of the day?" she asked

"Well, it just seemed to me, that everytime I went to do something, I was prevented. I got frustrated and finally just sat down and started to read."

Ever have one of those days? Sure you do. We all do. Mine was like that earlier this week.

I would go to start some laundry, only to be thwarted by L.L who kept pushing buttons and crying everytime I stopped her (Later, I find that she is cutting new teeth and it's making her a bear!).

I would try to wash some dishes. Then all at once everyone was hungry (ummm, we just ate 1 hour ago!).

It went on like this all morning. I just could not seem to accomplish anything. It was really frustrating me.
I finally realized I was not going to win and trying to win was making me truly crabby. So, I grabbed one of my favorite books, "My Daily Bread" and started to read. It's really funny how when I pick up this, book the chapter I land upon always seems to be the right one!

My child, believe in Me. Put your trust in My love and mercy. Many a time when you think that I am far from you, I am very close to you. When you feel as though everything is going wrong, then it is that you can give the best proof of your faith and your loyalty to Me.

I am your Maker and your loving God. Your most hidden thoughts are clearly seen by Me. Your eternal salvation is My main interest. When you feel disinterested and disgusted with your daily activities. Remember that I have good reasons for letting you feel so.
Think:
In all things God loves me and thinks of my true happiness. Because I am short-sighted and self-centered, I complain when things go wrong. God could prevent many a disagreeable experience of mine. He doesn't do so for very good reasons.As I grow older and wiser, I shall see how much I over-estimated the passing successes or comforts of earthy life.

Come to Tea Tuesday...can we talk about recitation? (and a bit more?)

2011-09-27T22:31:00.000-07:00

I have been wanting to implement some recitation in our homeschooling. I orginally had in my mind, more familiar ones, like "Midnight ride of Paul Revere" or "I don't think I shall ever see a poem as lovely as a tree". I am sure later, when they are older these might come into play. But...I first had to get them interested.

I found this site it's a site for poetry for kids.

I picked a few funny ones and in about two weeks they memorized their own poems. I am working on pronunciation, inflection, speed, and demeanor. I have to tell you, I enjoy the poems myself and get a good laugh when they are recited.

You know what's funny? Mary has learned a poem just by listening to her brothers. Here is the one that Nature boy learned (that she has learned too!)

Gerbil, gerbil, on the run
in your wheel, that looks like fun.
You must be in awesome shape.
Are you trying to escape?

Is that why you dug a hole?
Where'd you get that vaulting pole?
That looks like my grappling hook.
Give me back that rope you took.

Tell me what that ladder's for.
Why's that hacksaw on the floor?
Are those cable cutters there?
Do I see a signal flare?

Crowbar, blowtorch, chainsaw too?
What do you expect to do?
How'd you get that fuse to light?
Hey! That looks like dynamite!

Quick! Get out! It might explode!
Scram! Skedaddle! Hit the road!
Man, I'll miss you. You were fun.
Gerbil, gerbil, on the run.
--Kenn Nesbitt

I think this guy is pretty talented, and these poems are just right for little ones to learn.

On to Handwriting talk now. Sunshine has a bit of trouble with this area. Usually, I sit him in my lap as he is doing his copywork, this seems to help. I guide his hand if he starts to go off track.

Just a couple of days ago I did something that helped him even more. We do some hand exercises before we begin. Basically, I tell him to open his hand wide and then make a fist (we are crushing rocks!).

"Ok,ok open your hands wide!"
"Now, crush your rocks, hold them closed, hold hold hold. Now let go"

We crush rocks 7 times. Then we wiggle are fingers 7 times.

"ok, ok open your fingers wide. Now, wiggle,wiggle (make the sign for snow) wiggle, and go back up, and wiggle wiggle wiggle"

I noticed a good amount of difference in his penmanship.

With Nature boy (and Sunshine too) we started journals. I use notebooks that have a space for drawing and (I also use large blank stickers to insert here or there if he needs to illustrate a bug or an idea he couldn't fit in).

With Nature boy, I have him journal about "nature" shocking huh?

Sunshine likes to make up funny stories and really...I mean REALLY enjoys drawing funny picture to go along with his story. As he is drawing he is cracking himself up!

Well, I must be off. We have lost Mary's fi-fi, I need to go make a new one.

Rainbow bathroom

2011-09-26T21:39:00.000-07:00

Finally, I had it framed. I originally went down to Joann's with a 60% coupon to have it framed, but even with the cheapest materials the lady quoted me a price of $108.00!

So, using my 50% coupon I got a white frame (it cost $14 dollars). There is sits above my commode. I was thinking of getting four smaller white frames and having the kids draw their own rainbows and then hanging them under this picture.

In other news, just keeping busy. Trying to maintain the housework. It's hard to fit any extra decorating when it takes all my energy to get the regular housework done.

I have been giving out "new chores" to the kids. It took some time for them to get down their regular chores and I was hesitant to give out new ones, but the housework gets a bit overwhelming and we are a family!

I use to follow FlyLady and she called any house cleaning a "blessing". Well, their cleaning may not be perfect, but still is an improvement. Thank you Hunie, for the encouragement!

I had Mary and Mr.Lashes washing dishes. Granted, I had to put a giant towel under them, and they both had to stand on chairs, and there was a bit of a struggle to who got the hose thingy, but....the dishes in the end did get clean!

I had Nature boy mop. Using just water and a very well wrung out mop. Not perfect, definetly streaky, but still cleaner!

Sunshine, I gave the furniture polish and rag to (well, you know I had to give him the furniture spray or he wouldn't of stayed focused) he sprayed his rag and dusted the wood ("only what God makes ok?").

In case you are wondering about the two littlest, they were napping ;). Hey, I am not that dumb!

I have a lot of trouble getting my back sliding door clean. "Hello Josette, there is that squeegy (sp?)thingy in the garage!!

Well, I must be off. Here is Angel nowadays. As you can see he is starving to death.:)(have to get his nails clipped he scratched his little self on the nose!)

I haven't done "Tea on Tuesdays" in forever. I really must get on that one. Perhaps I can fit that in after school before lessons. We shall have a bit o' tea, a biscuit and a chat!

love,
J

I need decorating help. Seriously.

2011-09-21T17:03:00.000-07:00

You know one thing I admire about some of you ladies is your decorating knack. Oh, I love pretty things. I like such a variety of things and looks that sometimes it all comes together jumbly bumbly.

A few things about myself. I tend to go for more of a romantic look, yet not fussy. I don't do a lot of knicknacks. I love "homey looks", wainscotting, the beach,roses,and a clean look.

I use to try and attempt victorian, but it's just not jelling (or is that gelling?) anymore. The doilies are now only in the china cabinet. The roses are gone. I might even revamp my whole living room.

This family, with all these boys, all this activity and we need a "different" look. And though, I am "queen of this castle" I want our house to reflect more "us".

I want pictures the kids have drawn now framed. I want more photos of the kids framed. I wouldn't mind some shelves with some pretty shells.( But that's negotiable)

Seriously, I really need help. I hope to look to all of you (and my sisters and mom) to guide me. Keep me on track, keep me from decorating with rainbows and ..teddy bears (I am serious)

Recently, (and still in progress) We added white waincotting in our dining room. We are going to add crown moulding, and we painted the walls light beige (coconut milk the colour is called).we still need to add the chair rail and putty and paint.

Now, I have left up some of my pictures. This one in particular in the black frame I think looks nice against the wall. What do you think?

I have also been checking this site out "Budget Wise Home"

It's a fun site for ideas, but I still need to be guided!

So anywho, do you think black frames?

I am also working on getting the "Nature Table" to looking more......what's the word..? Umm...less gross. I am thinking some white shelves or boxed frames to hold the shells and neat bits of nature and then a small table with a cupboard (to hold extra cages, and stuff) for the live things.

We will probably be getting new blinds. Would white ones be the right color? (the curtains will probably be taken down.)

The corner hutch (it's for a large statue of Our Lady) will be painted white to blend in with the wainscotting. Is this a good choice?

For now, I will leave you to contemplate my decorating. Then we will move on ot the living room.

By the way...I know Debi...that you like this sort of thing. So, You better respond ;)

Recapping Feast of the Assumption and thinking of an upcoming feast

2011-09-19T08:01:00.000-07:00

I never did tell you how we celebrated Feast of the Assumption (August 15th)!
The evening before, I set the table with my favorite calico blue dishes. ( Nature Boy is quick to point out that you can see his "beloved" nature table in the background. ;)

I loves these dishes. Orginally, the were my mom's. They were an engagment present from my dad to her. She knew I loved these dishes since I was a little girl and she gave them to me when I got married. I don't have the complete set and every now and then on a birthday, or Christmas she orders me a new piece.

I used a pretty embroidered tablecloth that has blue in it. Once upon a time I was really into table linens. However, since having children, and especially taking into account tumbling toddlers, who steady themselves by pulling on tablecloths, I have saved these linens for special occasions only (My tablecloths do look a bit weird since I tuck in the overhaning pieces ha!)

For breakfast we had pancakes with blueberries, eggs, and some tea made from my flowering teapot. I think that day I brewed a lily flower flavored tea (say that 5 times fast...lily flower flavored tea...lily flower flavored...:)

We also colored pictures.

and of course had our dessert. Blue jello and whipped creme to look like the sky with Our lady taped to the outside of the cup to represent her Assumption (the kids really like this!)

How was your feast day?

I am thinking of now the feast of Padre Pio's receiving the stigmata. Padre Pio is a favorite of mine (as well as St. Francis) and I am thinking of how to celebrate this feast. Do you have any ideas?

Nourishing Traditions Meeting

2011-09-16T16:51:00.000-07:00

On Sunday, I passed by a lady at church(whom, I have know for years) carrying a Wise Traditions magazine. I said as passing. "I love that magazine."

"You know about this? She said.

"Oh, yes, Nourishing Traditions is like my bible for health. But I am not a perfect example of it. But I do try." I told her.

"Would you like to come to a meeting, a group of us are getting together to pull resources and talk over recipes. I am bringing raw milk and butter, anther person is bringing keifer."

"I would love to come!! Does anyone have a scobie?" (kombucha)

"Yep, I think so."

So, there you have it. I have met some people at my parish that are really interested and trying to follow this way of life.

I admit I am not perfect, but I try hard to feed my family well, foods that God intended for us.

The lady actually asked me to speak. I told her I couldn't possibly, I feel like such a hypocrite because I goof up and make exceptions in our diet that in no way would mirror "Nourishing Traditions". (A couple of weeks ago I ate at McDonald's ahhhhh!)

But she wants my imput, as a busy mother, to what works, what is budget friendly, resources and maybe share some of my recipes.

I can't tell how excited I am to be going.

She wants me to get the word out to other mothers. I don't feel comfortable doing this.
(the ladies attending this meeting are older mothers and older ladies)

The thing is, I have talked about this sort of thing to other young mothers and it has met with "eye rolling", to "I can't eat like that with our budget" and also, "I am too busy". Which I understand (even more so nowadays). However, I have learned a few tricks, and maybe something I do will be doable to them too.

Mary's cake

2011-09-16T07:38:00.000-07:00

Well, this is how Mary's cake turned out. I still need to work on my roses but in all it came out pretty nice.

Dear Miss Mary,

My sweet little girl, who eyes are bluer than violets. You are sweet,friendly, and cheerful.You love to sing (especially "Swing from a star"). You are such a helper. You are helping mommy unload the diswasher!

You are a very "girly girl", you so love your ballet and yet... you will do karate kicks right along side the boys!

You are a friendly little girl and I think as temperment goes, you are Sanguine. When you and your little cousin went to say "hello" to Father "B" and get a blessing. She said, "Hello Father B" and you turned a bit sideways, smiled and said, "I am Mary!".

You too have a "fi-fi" which you put against your nose as you suck your fingers when you are tired. It really is quite adorable.

We have started pre-school with you and you love to do your "letters". Right now you have learned the letters and sounds for; a,t,l,o,g,h, and N! Even after we finish our lessons, you will request to do your "school", such a difference from the boys. (who usually run off at the words "your're done").

I love you dearly, my sweet little girl and I pray for you daily. Follow in the footsteps of Our Lady and lead your little sister to her too.
Love,
Mom

This year we gave Mary a tea set,a book, and dvd of Baby ballet (which is done really nice and show s all the ballet moves along with their proper name). I was doing the dvd with Mary...(oh, I am so out of shape!).

My sister gave me a child's sized hutch. I am just in love with it. I have always wanted a wooden little kitchen (montessori style) but they were too expensive. Well, my sister got this hutch for herself at a second hand store, but her little ones like to scale it, so she asked if I wanted it. Can we say,"yeah!" So here, is the hutch and her teaset.

The boys found this at the dollar store.

I will post soon some other birthdays. I am a bit behind.

having trouble

2011-09-07T08:55:00.001-07:00

everytime I sign in to my blog...it takes me to blog roll or something. It's like they are selling my blog?

Making roses and preparations for The Assumption

2011-08-14T21:44:00.000-07:00

Today I played. I played at making some roses for an upcoming birthday of a certain soon-to-be three year old girl.

The thing is, it has to be a "girly girl" cake. I think the year before I did a Julia Child's recipe for the cake and made up some pink frosting. It was good mind you, but I don't know, it didn't say, "wow!"!

The year before I did "lady bug cakes".

So, I have this idea to make a three tiered, white frosted, pink roses, and adorned with ballerinas cake . Keep your finger crossed.
I was able to find some ballerina statuettes at the dollar store!

I practiced for as long as the royal icing held out;)

I just learned this cool tip for beginners (that of course I will be implementing because it's just so darn yummy) to use a hershey chocolate kiss as the base of the rose and then add petals until it's all covered. How cool is that?

I also made some desserts for tomorrow's feastday. Blue jello with whipped cream. I taped a picture of Our Lady to the outside. It is supposed to represent her Assumption.

I have a coloring sheet for them to color. I have an idea for a game, but I will see how it turns out before sharing.

Have a happy feastday!

ballerina bribery

2011-08-10T13:46:00.000-07:00

Incentives, rewards, treats, pay-back, call it what you will. I call it bribery and it has worked.

Hang a little ballerina outfit in the bathroom, tell her the deal, "make poo-poo and you get to wear this", then promptly read, "Angelina the ballerina" and see what happens.

It happened! And it's been happening.
I am sure God is fine with it. Good=heaven, Hell=bad. Pretty sure it all falls into a reward system.

nifty little things

2011-08-04T17:17:00.000-07:00

I was at Target. There of course to pick-up vacuum bags (I never did get the vacuum bags)and some dish soap.

I just had to stop in the dollar section that they so strategically place at the entrance....how dare they.

In the dollar section I picked up some fun workbooks to keep littlier ones happy and busy and I was trying to pick up some neat things for their first day of school. (we school all summer but it's laxed compared to our regular school year).

I found these tubes....what do they do? I started to pull one apart, then push it together, apart, together, apart. Soon, I had some kids (not mine I actually got out of the house alone...can you believe that?)joining me.

It is quite gratifying to push these little hoses together they make a clicky snappy sound.

Today of course being hot, I took the privlege of spoiling them with the tubes. Let me tell you, these little guys proved to be a entertainer for a good half hour at least.
You can hook them together.

Make them into shapes. Like the letter O.

And...twirl them so they make a cool sound.

and another nice thing about them. Made in the U.S.A.

garlic, garlic...garlic

2011-08-02T14:37:00.000-07:00

My dad just gave me some of his homegrown organic garlic...Yes.....!

I had so much garlic I decided to shuck it (can you use that word for garlic as well as corn?) and put in olive oil. My grandmother did this and then would just take out what she needed. I place my jar of oil/garlic in the fridge.

I don't know if this is the proper way to store it and I have heard of people saying that is grounds for botulism. I don't know. I think that it being submerged in oil and placed in the fridge would make it safe. However, I am no expert.

Here is the bathroom. I am sorry it's not a very good picture. You can see the wainscotting,new floor, then crown moulding,the new paint colour (coconut milk), my new shower rod (minus the shower curtain...but that is another story), and my new towel hooks. Each of the children have their own towel hence the colors of the rainbow.

By the way do you see the ballerina tutu hanging on the shower curtain? Of course you do...motive for a potty trainer.( I just noticed the lid was left up on the toilet...oops...where are those boys?)

Ladies day of Recollection

2011-07-29T16:48:00.000-07:00

About every 6 months our parish has a one day Ladies' day of recollection. (they also host one for them men).

These are truly a blessing and a spiritual refreshment for our souls. Todays was combined with an all day adoration of the blessed sacrament.

We started the day off off with Mass, then breakfast, a conference, confessions, adoration, consultations, and benediction.

I almost made the whole day 8-5pm then little Angel started to get restless, so I had to leave at 3:00.

Father recommended that we do our own personal once amonth day of recollection.We can stay at church visiting the blessed sacrament, reading spiritual books, and praying. He told us it is in no way selfish to our families, but beneficial towards our vocations and becoming the best mother, daugher, wife, ect.

"Works without God are uselss". How true!!

Chocolate is nice, a cute outfit is nice, a chick flick is nice, but it always leaves me wanting for the next time..it's not a lasting peace or enjoyment.

I am ready now to face Monday...and Tuesday...and ....Wednesday....:)

My Changing Station

2011-07-27T13:10:00.000-07:00

Here is what my changing "station" is. I used the hallway linen closet for a changing area. My mom and I covered a piece of foam with vinyl (is that spelled right?)that was cut to fit the table area of the linen closet.
I use the linen closet in my room for all our other linens.

On On the right side are the cloth (as well as up above) I have fuzzi bunz diapers and also some prefold with bummis whisper wraps. On the left I have the disposables. In the front of the disposables is my spray to clean off the changing station.
I use a mixture of water and tea tree oil.

The two baskets on the left I got on sale at Target for $5 a piece and they are really nice for this area. In one basket are doodads like diaper cream, bandaids, nail clippers, lotion and such. The other basket holds cloth rags. (The water bottles for wetting the rags are there too).

The cupboards down below hold extra disposables, wipes, trash bags, and a trashcan.

This is a great changing table, station, area...it doesn't hurt my back to lean over, it's wipeable, ample storage...just fantastic.

Cherries cheeries cheeries.....

2011-07-21T19:39:00.000-07:00

The cherries were on sale for $1.29.
I begin the intial task of pitting the cheeries. I got a little gadget for this for my birthday last year...pretty nifty little thing.

Here we have 6 jars of cherry jam. I am so proud of myself I can barely stand it.

You may ask why I go through so much trouble? Well, I try to stay away from high fructose corn syrup and jam made with regular sugar or natural jam is expensive.

and guess what? Mary is continuing to use the potty. Hopefully soon, she will attempt the number 2.

Guess what? (this is Friday now) my husband just told me that, the jam I made is the best tasting jam he has ever eaten. I am soooo in love with him right now.

Back from vacation

2011-07-19T23:04:00.000-07:00

Hello! Well, I made it. I survived our 2 weeks of vacation. I survived 12 hours in the car with 6 kids, my husband, and myself! :)(and the battle with myself is half the battle)

Actually, the drive to California wasn't too bad. Sure, we had some meltdowns, but we were able to keep things on the whole, smooth.

Today, I have been doing laundry and cooking some food for the week.
I have yet to get the van vacuumed out...I am actually avoiding it. I shudder to think what it looks like now, in the daylight.

We did all sorts of things on our vacation. One new thing we did was visit Yosemite Park. I saw for the first time (outside the zoo) a deer! The boys were so excited about that. It was truly beautiful up there!

Do you see my lovelies? Isn't that just a fantastic view ( I have to use that word now, Hunie has got me hooked on it)

Of course, we had to visit the beach....ahhh the beach.

It was a bit cold, and I was having trouble doing anything but making sure Angel was kept warm.

But in all the visit to the beach was just so refreshing for my soul. Well, you know me and how I feel about the beach.

I was happy to see the family, but I am happy to be home again, in my own bed!

My husband went grocery shopping today and brought a bunch of cheeries. He wants to dehydrate them (I remember doing that once and it seemed time consuming), I was thinking of making cherry jam. Do any of you have a easy recipe?

Guess what? Today, I decided to potty train Mary for real. I have tried to potty train her before, but it just seemed it wasn't getting through. However, her third birthday will be coming up and I thought to myself, "Josette, I bet you anything, she will get it this time...." and of course I bought her ballerina slippers and and a ballerina dress to ~~bribe~~ encourage her since the stickers were not working.

She went potty twice today!! That is the first time! So, a promise is a promise and she got the slippers. To get her dress she has to do the number 2. She did try to do the number 2 (that is also something big...she never wanted to try before. She would sit on the toilet and just sit). Before, I would even bring in the portable television set and put on a movie that she liked...she still would not go.

I am hoping this lasts and that she does try the number 2 tomorrow.

Am I grossing you out? That's my life though. Children, their steps in their lives and what I do to help them along!

Even though I have a lot to catch up on, the day has been pleasant. DH still off of work was able to take the boys to their lessons. I stayed behind and Mary and I baked cornbread and read a story together. Have you ever read the story of "Chrysanthemum" ? It's about a little mouse with that name. very cute...and I got it for .50 cents at the library. It's one of Mary's favorites now, along with Angelina the ballerina.

I need to back to the library to see what the kids have earned from the summer eading program. I would also like to check out the discard pile. Last time I came home with 5 books for .50 cents each! These were hardbound books too. I am very excited about this find.

Little Angel is doing well and I think he has gained about 2 lbs...he is getting so deliciously chunky! I am feeling pretty darn good, and hope to get in some walking soon.

I would also like to craft again. It helps me to feel like I accomplish something in a day when I craft.
Oh, I know what I do is important and that I am accomplishing things that are only visible to God sometimes! But, at the end of the day you can't tell how many times I have changed a diaper, wiped the table, or reminded someone to do their chores.. So, when I am having a hectic day, it's nice to see a craft I made and say, "ha, at least there is that!"

I have been buying new clothing a bit at a time. I don't know about you, but after having a baby I feel very "dowdy" and it helps to get some new clothing or a new cute do. I am not sure of what kind of hairstyle. Nothing too short as I pull my hair up several times a day. Maybe highlights...I am not really sure.

I am also thinking I would like to make a post encourgaging families with teenagers to pray the rosary. This could be a post for families that are just now starting to pray as a family, or perhaps a familiy that is having a hard time to pray together because of schedules.

It's true my children are not teenagers, I though, was once a teenager ;) and I remember how things were when we prayed the rosary as a family.

What do you think? Have any insight? Any ideas, suggestions, recommendations?

Geez, I am hungry yet again. I tell you what, it's like my stomach is one bottomless pit.

Pie making....I think I am pretty much a genius in the kitchen these days.

2011-07-04T14:56:00.000-07:00

My mom holds a fourth of July party every year. It is fantastic! She has games, the decor, the food, and you can watch the fireworks from her backyard...fantastic.

This year is a pie-making contest. She woudln't tell me who was judging it. However, I have a feeling it is my dad. My dad loves peach pie ;)

So, I made a pie today. It took me a bit of time to do. I have to stop so much to attend to this little one or that little one.

The key to making a good crust is cold butter and cold flour and cold icewater. Yes indeedy that will do it.

And here she is....Miss Peach (keep your fingers crossed) pie. I soooo wish I could cut a slice and try it out. Ah well, at the party!

Tomato sauce, nature table updates and making fourth of july art

2011-06-30T12:58:00.000-07:00

Here are some of the canned tomato sauce I made. I know it's simple, but I love the way this looks. The darker red ones are those done in the crockpot overnight. I told you, "Easy Peazy"!

The lighter coloured ones are those done on the stove top.

On the nature table we are now housing crawdads. Yes,...I know. Dad actually got a bubbler for them. The thing is these critters have figured out a way to escape...at night...

And here is our blue bellied lizard.

And here we have some fourth of July "fireworks". I love those foam stickers!

Summer of Reading and trying to find my groove

2011-06-27T15:56:00.000-07:00

First of all here is Angel. He is almost 4 weeks old....oh my goodness, don't you love his hair?

With all that is happening over at our house, I am just trying to maintain the housework, lessons, laundry, meals and such. With school work I want to make sure they don't forget too much ;)

I call this a summer of reading. We have signed up for the reading program at the library. I have to tell you, I used to volunteer at the library way back when, and it was a bit more challenging for the kids. The program that I see now implemented, seems very easy. The kids can get points for getting a library card or just watching the dvd that derived it's story from a book. I was a bit bothered by this so, I decided to make my own reading program.

I have the kids read to me, read to each other, listen to me read and we have spelling tests based on new words we hear.

One fun thing I have done, is to read a book like, "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory" and when we get to the end we all picked out a candy at the store (how can you not want chocolate or candy when you watch this movie?) and we watch the movie version (the gene wildier version).

We are now reading through "Treasure Island" and I think when we finish this one, I will make a treasure map for them to follow and make a "chest of goodies" for them to find!

I am trying to get back into a regular schedule, it's taking me a bit of time. I am quite embarrassed by the state of the house. I wish it wouldn't bother me so much that the house is "out of sorts" but it's starting to make me itch and I have ~~taken up drinking~~. Just kidding! I have though eaten large amounts of baking chocolate (hey, I was desperate and it was the only thing left in house!). Hopefully, I can get Angel on a regular sleeping schedule and I can start walking again.

This Friday is the feast of the Sacred Heart and I just MUST do something for this feast as the kids have been removing thorns from the giant felt heart.

Oh, these are my new sneakers...just had to share. Whoa, my socks are totally uneven.

I have new strappy sandals that are quite cute. I will post those soon.

I have been making a ton of tomato sauce.I was going to post a "tomato tomato tomato" series, but I am not finding too much free times these days. I make tomato saucevery simple. Puree, throw in a crockpot until reduced, then I can it. Easy Smeazy!

I have doing a "pantry challenge" and found some dehydrated figs that I had picked last summer still in my freezer. I made some figgy bread. I modified a recipe I found, I will have to post the recipe, but I wonder how many people have dried figs on hand. Ah well...

Don't know whether to laugh, cry, or hide myself in embarrassment.

2011-06-18T23:05:00.000-07:00

Finally, our floors were finished today. After a month of our "stuff" everywhere but in it's place, I was excited to start reloading shelves and whatnots with their things and out of my closet, bathroom, and kitchen floor.

We had a small problem with the floors two weeks ago, when the flooring finally did arrive it was damaged so we had to wait (again) for new flooring to come in.

I had left the house to visit my sister for a part of the day to keep the little ones at bay from the very exciting watching of men working on the floor. (Mr. Lashes was almost besides himself with watching and the tools and the noise.....!).

By three o' clock the floors where done. Hip hip....hoo...what?

"paint" he says to me.

"paint? Now?" I say

"paint, yes now before I have to bolt the bookcases". says he

"ah...yes, paint now." I say.

So, I loaded up the kids and headed to...I wasn't sure where to go. Six kids, one of them who seems to nurse every 15 minutes (bless his little heart). I comtemplated the park, a pizza place...or a learning store. Perhaps we can get some more doodads for the Father's day cards.

While in the store, Nature boy was vexed that the littlier ones where not in army man formation line order. The baby (Angel for now) decided he wanted to eat. L.L decided that though she was happy before to be seated, now decided that she had rights and wanted to get down and "finger the merchandise". Sunshine, Mr.Lashes, and Mary were fascinated with a big area rug that had the alphabet on it and were trying to jump from letter to letter to make up words.

After about 10 minutes I was done...yes put a fork in me DONE. Let's head back to the car. Now, I don't know about you, but it takes me a bit of time to get everyone in, seatbelted and everything. I had to change a couple of diapers, find someone's shoe, put the stoller in the back, and lean way over to buckle three kids in.

While doing this. I was startled by a woman's voice behind me saying, "excuse me".

I, of course, jumped a bit. I quickly wondered if maybe she had found L.L.'s missing shoe. She didn't seem to need money. I remember walking up to our car and she had been sitting in her car using her cell phone.

"I am sorry, I startled you." She quickly said ( I think I mumbled something like.."Oh, that's ok."

"I just wanted you to know I think you are doing a great job with your kids and I wanted to give you this (she reached out to hand me a $20 dollar bill) because you deserve to spend some money on yourself."

I have to say I was a bit embarrassed (not mad or upset). I quickly smiled and said, "oh, no thank you."

She smiled back and said something nice ( I can't remember what though) and got in her car and drove away.

I am not sure what to make of it. Either...

1. She thought I could use some money. Though...I was out shopping.
2. I looked that worn out (my makeup had completely worn off by that time and I ain't no natural beauty and my hair is generally a mess.)
3.She was just doing a "good mommy deed".

Well, whoever you are. I thank you with all my heart. I do try very hard, and it's nice that it is reconized. I only ask for your prayers. Perhaps one day when I am not so embarrassed we can have a coffee together.

Guess who finally showed up?

2011-06-02T17:30:00.000-07:00

This little guy. He is doing wonderful and I am resting up on my "babymoon". He was born Tuesday. He is 8 lbs 14 oz and 22 inches long(wow!). My midwife told me he would of been smaller if he wasn't 13 days late!

I am still a bit sore but I am getting spoiled. Meals on trays, laying around just tending this Angel. Thank you for all your prayers as toward the end I was losing my confidence and strength (it seems this little guy likes to have his hand near his face and decided to come into the world that way :).

God bless you all.

J

Waiting.....waiting.....waiting......

2011-05-28T17:02:00.000-07:00

Dear Mom and Dad,

I know you are waiting for me to make my big debut. I want to let you know, I don't know when that would be. You see, I like it in here. The temperature is perfect, I am constantly being nourished, I feel cuddled all day, noises are muffled and generally pleasant. Not only that, but mom is right with me 24/7...who can ask for more.

I bet you are wondering if I am a girl or boy.....hee hee.

love,
baby

well, the little stinker! Here I am waiting, way past my due date and he sends me this?

Anywho, I am just waiting and trying to maintain the household. We made it past birthdays, visitors, gradutation, and First Holy communions (yes, I cried like a baby that day).

We had to put some house projects on hold as we are not sure when the baby will be coming and I can't have handymen coming in and out. Other house projects have been comleted (thank you Father-in-law). I now have crown molding in my bathroom and down the hall along with the wainscotting whoo hoo!

Well, that's all for now. I don't have any cute project to show you, or any deep thoughts lately ;)

Pray for me that I have patience!!

Just a hello

2011-05-18T00:42:00.000-07:00

I thought I'd drop in to say hello. Nothing new happening over here. Just waiting...and cleaning and getting ready for some home renovation...and my husband is on his never ending quest to find out how the crickets are getting in the house. (Everytime I see that man he has a caulk gun in his hand I.KID.YOU.NOT). The cricket quest led him to removing the sideboards (which we were planning on replacing...just not around this time), which led to removing them in our bedroom..., which led to let's replace the floors...which led to ay yi yi!

Hubby's parents are coming in on Thursday so, we are trying to tidy up and make room in garage for their car. Actually, I haven't been doing much. I am pretty useless at this point. I have been going here and there for appointments (mostly prenatal related)and for the kids activities.

I am doing ok, just feelig tired, and asking you all for a prayer that I get a good night's rest before I go into labor.

I am finishing up on the first communion cookies. I had to experiment a bit until I found a cookie that would hold up well. I found the recipe on Bake at 350 (see my blog list). I need to get some cookie bags and some more icing and I think I am all set.

Well, I best go. I hope my post made sense. I am not sure if I have any real thoughts anymore!

Preparing for First Communion

2011-05-13T22:43:00.000-07:00

His first Communion is coming on May 22nd. I was trying to find a 9 day novena appropriate for this occasion. I stumbled upon Minnesota Mom's blog and she has a lovely preparation for first communion with a novena that the child also says.

I quickly printed this out, I will add it to our family binder of prayers and feastdays. This is also a lovely preparation for a child to do. I found this....which took a bit more time to print but it is still sooo nice. It is "Little Lamb of Jesus Fist Holy Communion Novena".

I was reading about blessed Imelda and found this prayer. I think it would do nicely, don't you?

Lord Jesus Christ, you received into heaven Blessed Imelda
who loved you in the Eucharistic banquet. By her prayers
may we learn to approach your holy table with that same fervent love
and so fulfill our longing to be with you,
who lives and reigns with the Father and the Holy Spirit,
one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Here is also a family novena for the child's first communion.

Here is a novena to Our Lady of the The Most Blessed Sacrament.

and a Novena to Our Lady of the Most Blessed Sacrament and patron saint as written by Fr. Miguel Marie

Our Lady of the Most Blessed Sacrament, Mary, my Mother, I love you. Thank you for always leading us to Jesus. Teach me how to assist properly at the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass. Prepare my mind and heart for my First Holy Communion. Pour your love into my little heart. Help me to always be ready to receive Jesus. Whenever I am not ready because of serious sin, lead me to Confession so that I would be ready to receive your Son. Help me to always receive Holy Communion worthily as if it would be my first time, or as if it would be my last time, or as if it would be my only time. And lead me to visit and adore frequently your Son, Jesus, Who is truly and really present in the Most Blessed Sacrament, the Holy Eucharist.St. , my patron, pray for me and be always with me especially as I approach Jesus, our God, to receive Him and to adore Him in the Holy Eucharist. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

My sister and I help the children a bit with a "cheat sheet for the confessional" this also helps them to be more proactive in their spiritual life. If they can keep this in a safe place they can refer or mark it (hopefully not!) immediatley so when they do make a confession they are all ready to go! (perhaps at the end of the day during their examination of conscience)

Confession (Cheat sheet)

Date of last confession_________________________________________

Bless me Father for I have sinned it has been_______________weeks since my last confession.
I Have sinned against the First Commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Second Commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Third Commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Fourth Commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Fifth Commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Sixth Commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Seventh Commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Eight h commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Ninth Commandment by:
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I have sinned against the Tenth Commandment by;
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I struggle with the weakness of_________________________

listen to the priests advice.

Ask any questions you may have

Pray your act of contrition

Only leave the confessional after absolution and you are sure that the priest is finished with you. He will usually say, “sin no more and pray for me.”

Go to your pew.

Thank God for the sacrament of Penance and forgiving you.

Pray your penance

Pray for your confessor (the priest that was in the confessional)

Well, I hope that gave you all a few ideas too!!

I hope you are all doing well. I am in the midst of home renovation, and now trying an elimination diet with Mr. Lashes to see if we can clear up some problems. (elimination diets are not fun...nope) We will perservere and go on though, won't we?

Happy Birthday Mr. Lashes

2011-05-09T18:21:00.000-07:00

He wanted a "ninja" cake. How simple is it to buy these little guys and have them guard the cake :) Of course there was a mad scramble to pick out their favorite color ninja. (In the end momma divided them out ;)

Dear Mr. Lashes

My dear "brown eyed boy", whose lashes are the envy of all the girls! I can't believe you are 4 already!! You were my first baby born at home, a real pioneer. But, that is you all over, as you constantly remind me that "I can do it momma, all by myself" and that "you are big now".

I might sigh at your constant ~~unfixing~~ fixing of things, but really I am quite impressed at how coordinated you are and that you are able to see how machines fit together.

You love all gadgets, little tools and of course your beloved "fi fi's". I am so glad you like the pillow pet I got you. Dad and I thought it most appropriate to get you the magniformers so you can build to your hearts content.

We are very proud that you are learning your letters and that you do so well with your lessons. You are riding your bike so well, and you help mommy in the kitchen!

Mostly, you are my cuddly little boy. Always ready for a hug. I love you dearly my little boy, and couldn't imagine our life without you.

love,
Momma

Marian Art Trading Card Swap 2011

2011-05-09T04:22:00.000-07:00

Kimberlee is hosting a trading card swap. I know there are some budding artists out there in blogland. I hope you join and thoroughly enjoy yourself!

Homemade dishwasher detergent

2011-05-05T15:03:00.000-07:00

I have tried the homemade clothing detergent ( feel it works fine, except on badly stained clothing then it actually saves me money if I use a regular detergent from the store)

I usually run the diswasher twice a day (off peak hours only of course!):) I found this recipe for the dishwashing detergent. I am happy to find it. Perhaps it will help save some money~

Slowing down....

2011-05-03T15:29:00.000-07:00

In case you are wondering why I am not posting so much...(actually, I think you understand why). I am slowing waaaaaay down. There is a lot on my plate right now. I am trying to make life as simple as possible, trying to get in as much rest as I can, and trying to prepare for Nature Boy's first communion.

Everything seems to be happening all at once over here. I have dentist appointments, pediatric appointments, chiropractor appointments, the kid's lessons, and I am sure you have the same amount of business in your life!

Normally, my life is pretty quiet. I don't do too many playdates, or get togethers, or even too much shopping (if I can help it!) So, to me, this is a lot.

Well, I better get. I made a huge mess in the kitchen making cornmeal muffins for dinner tonight! God bless and talk to you soon!

Lamb cake

2011-04-30T12:44:00.000-07:00

Very similiar to last years cake (minus the bird's nests)...doesn't he look like he is smiling :)

Late post of Nature Boy's army cake

2011-04-28T21:36:00.000-07:00

So, here it is. An army cake of sorts. As you can see it's very easy to do. Chocolate frosting here and there, along with ribbons of melted semi-sweet chocolate chips, and then the dyed army green (you have to mix a bit of red int he green to get it that army green colour) butter creme frosting. It was a gooey, yummy, battle.:)

Why my sewing machine gathers dust

2011-04-27T13:30:00.000-07:00

I use to hate to read of another blogger's success with exercise. Why? I think I was jealous. I would read that they jogged a mile or completed a "walk for hope" or such and and I would make internal excuses as to why I didn't stay more active.

"Oh, they have more time. I have more kids. I am too tired. My husband works two jobs."

Some of my health issues weren't going away. I would eat right, take the right supplements, visited two doctors and things weren't getting any better. In fact, I was feeling lousy and getting grumpy.

(though nowadays I am grumpy because...well you know, end of pregnancy, lack of sleep, yada, yada yada)

One thing on my list of things I ought to do to feel better was, exercise. I hadn't done that yet.....

Oh, people would tell me, "I am sure you run around enough with the kids." True. The thing is, my body has became very efficient at being a mother. I have become used to night wakings, getting up and down and up and down. Obviously, it wasn't enough.

Then I was talking with a mom, a mom of 6 kids, a mom of six kids who works full time, and she gets up a 4:00 to go jogging. GASP! She told me, she too was feeling lousy, and one lent she promised to walk everyday on the treadmill for 30 minutes. Now she jogs almost everyday and has lost 70lbs!

She inspired me. I am sure she is just as tired as I am. No more excuses now.

At first I wanted to swim for exercise. That required drive time to the gym, getting dressed in a swimsuit, undressed, drive back home. Time is precious. I have to grab the exercise when I can.

Walk videos were the answerfor me. Low impact, and right at home. For over 4 months I have been using videos to exercise.I use to exercise everyday, but have cut it down to every other day. I really like Leslie Sansone's videos. I usually wait until the kids are in bed and then put one on.

I do feel better.
(though lately because of lack of sleep..I am a bit of a zombie mombie;)
My muscle tone is better.

I tell my midwife (yes, I use a midwife) that my core is stronger and these exercises are better than kegals (sorry, if that is too much info!).

My circulation is better.

My pregancy weight though is continues to climb, is climbing slower this time.

One great great thing is that my blood sugar count after eating is much lower.

I really want to stay healthy for myself. Yes, I have said it. I know God wants me to do this. I need to do this.

So, that is why my sewing machine collects dust. Because, whatever precious time I have, I use it for exercise. Sewing projects have to wait. Even cleaning will have to wait.

Here are some tips I used to keep myself on track with exercising. Believe me, I hate to exercise. I'd prefer to sew, or play on the computer:)

1. I made a promise that before I get on the computer I have to exercise first. Do not pass go, do not collect $200 dollars unless I do:)

2. I don't have arguments with myself about if I should exercise today or...not...I simply end the conversation in my head. I am really good at talking myself out of exercising.:)

3. Before I exercise I say a simple prayer, that whatever distractions come up I will deal with them and go on. And Believe me, the distractions do come. Kids that are supposed to be in bed get out. Someone gets sick....you get the idea.

I wasn't sure to share this with you all. First, because I wanted to make sure I was sticking with it. Sometimes, I get really excited about something, then drop it rather quickly! I hope to continue as long as I can ( I am 37 weeks now), I hope this helps with the delivery too!

I hope you are inspired. I started off with a 30 minute exercise video and then when I did that for two weeks, I treated myself to a new video. Now, when I complete a month of exercise I buy myself a new video to keep motivated. After the baby is born. I want to continue this regiment and this time I will treat myself to new workout clothes:)

God bless,
J

Doctors denying vaccine risks.

2011-04-24T22:34:00.001-07:00

http://www.nvic.org/NVIC-Vaccine-News.aspx

Happy Easter

2011-04-24T21:51:00.000-07:00

A wee bit busy with Easter, but I wanted to stop by and wish you all a happy and blessed Easter. I will try to post soon.

Feast of Our Lady of Dolors

2011-04-15T17:57:00.000-07:00

To remember Our lady's sufferings what better way then to pray her seven dolars?

Who brings your Easter basket? (what we do and say to the children)

2011-04-14T08:10:00.000-07:00

On Easter morning we place the children's Easter baskets in front of Our Lady's statue. We tell the children that Our Lady is so pleased with all the sacrifices they have made during lent for her son, that she is giving a "thank you" to us with treats. This year I hope to bring the Easter baskets to mass to have them blessed.

My sister tells her little ones that Mary Magdalene brings the baskets. She was first to hear the good news and wants to spread the joy!

The children, of course, know that we work with Our lady to make this happen.

Happy birthday to Nature Boy

2011-04-13T22:05:00.000-07:00

Dear Nature Boy,

Not only do I blog to stay in touch with family, to share my day with other ladies, but I have found it a way to keep memories of my days with all of you.

Today you are seven, I can't believe how time flies. It seems like yesterday I was on my way to the hospital to have you. I remember the first time I held you. How little did I know back then ( I am still stuggling now). If there is any spiritual progress I have made through the years, it is because you all came into my life. I thank God daily for you.

I didn't think my heart could expand any further, but it has. I never knew I could love so deeply, worry so much, care so much, fight so fiercely if need be, and have the energy to keep going for all of you and soley because of you.

You are quite wonderful. Do you know that? You, whose eyes are blue and green. They are blue as you always are looking up at the heavens, loving the blue sky, loving the birds, the sunsets, the clouds, and appreciating all that God has made. Green like the grass as you find all the insects you so love, the leaves, as you watch the seasons change, and green as the plants in the garden that you help me to plant. You have so many interests, ask so many questions, and wake up each morning with an idea to try out!

As you get ready to make your First Communion, we have had many little "talks" of the grandness and greatness of the biggest event of your life. (I am sure on this day I will cry, I will be so happy).

How Our Lord has waited for you! He knew about you before you were born. Before the dinosaurs he knew of you! He had you in his heart in the garden of Gethsemane as he prayed before he offered his life for you. He knows when you come and visit him in the church and when we do not come He says, "where is my Nature Boy" who loves all that I make, who asks his mother and father so many many questions about life, who draws so many beautiful pictures! Oh, how I miss him and cannot wait until we are united in Communion!"

How magnificent it will be to receive him, we must ask Mother Mary to help us be ready for this special day. If we think of how big it is, we will certainly tremble as in my favorite lenten hymm, "O Sacred Heart surrounded"..... "Yet angel hosts adore thee and tremble as they gaze."

I will pray for you tonight. I will smile into my pillow as I drift off to sleep thinking of all your "little ways". God bless you always my little boy, how truly do I love you.

Mom's birthday cake

2011-04-10T20:04:00.000-07:00

A four layer, lemon, buttercreme with candied lemon slices. Yes, it was delicious....(I make exceptions for birthdays ;)

Easter pretzel sticks-a kid friendly recipe.

2011-04-09T17:21:00.000-07:00

I am notorious for making huge messes in the kitchen. But really, when you are making something so yummy that involves chocolate, can you really help yourself? Can you really refrain from from getting a bit excited when you have the cutest sprinkles? Can you really say, "no" when the kids want to help with this?

The hardest part?

We all gave up sweets for lent.....oh the irony, the agony! In the words of Gene Wilder from the movie "Willy Wonka and the Chocolate factory" (also another hard film to watch in case you are having a chocolate craving), "the suspense is killing me, I hope it will last."

I can't wait to bite into one on Easter morning.

I think they will look really cute standing up in their Easter baskets. They would even be cute to take to an Easter party. Put in a cute mug, or something, placed on a festive table,and there you go!

This really doesn't need a tutorial, but taking pictures is all I have (sob... sob).

We start off when a bag of chocolate chips. A bag of stick pretzels and sprinkles. (I did try some colored sugar, but it seemed to dissolve into the chocolate).

Place the whole bag of chocolate chips in a microwave safe bowl. Microwave on high for one minute. Take out and stir. If the chocolate hasn't melted, microwave again for a minute, take out and stir.

Take a pretzel stick and dip in chocolate. I use a big spoon to help the process :)

This is the fun part, sprinkle or as my son does roll in sprinkles. I think sprinkling your sprinkles makes it look so much nicer, but to each their own :)

I then place the pretzels on a butterd cookie sheet and put them in my refrigerator to harden. Hopefully, I can get out to buy some plastic cover thingys.

Filling the Easter Baskets-books and religious themed candies.

2011-04-02T22:53:00.000-07:00

Inspired by several of you ladies, I have been looking at different items to fill the Easter baskets than the usual peeps and chocolate bunnies (though, there will be yummies in the basket!!).

I have come across some Easter books for the children that have a religious theme.

For Mary I have "A Tale for Easter" by Tasha Tudor :)

For Nature Boy I was thinking "The Legend of the Sand Dollar".

For Sunshine "Benjamin's Box"

For Mr. Lashes "Easter in the Garden".

and for little L.L. "The week that led to Easter".

Of course in my browsing on amazon. I came across first communion candy molds...oh boy!

I am planning on making some petite fours chalice/hosts, but I wonder if I should also add these? Oh, the battle in my mind that goes on for even more yummies. (can you tell I am sugar deprived?)

I first found about the chalice cookies from Lacy at Catholic Icing

which led me to this lady's blog.

Which led me to buying the cookie cutter.

Of course, I rationalize buying it for the fact that I have almost six kids that with God's grace will make their first communion and will undoubtly, certainly, most insistently need these cookies in order to celebrate properly!

I tried to make them last year for a nephew, but they broke quite easily. So, I found an easy petite four way. (forgive me I forgot what blog I stumbled upon for this) Anywho, you use a pound cake mix and dip the pieces of cake in almond bark and then decorate. I haven't tried it yet...keep your fingers crossed

I came back to add that I did find some religious themed candy. These are from the Oriental trading company.

I would love to find some candy without the high fructose, but I can't seem to find any religious themed ones. I could make some of my own. I do see at Joann's molds for chocolates and lollipops. I saw this lamb mold on amazon. Which I like, because it's more symbolic of Our Lord.

The thing is, will I be able to get it done?

In my apron pockets-March 31st.

2011-03-31T15:49:00.000-07:00

Well, now let's sit a spell and rest shall we? Oh boy, this baby bump is getting bigger. I am telling you, if something falls on the floor, I usually leave it there.

By the way...there is no way around it, it is funny to watch a pregnant lady put on a pair of pantyhose. Just a thought I'd like to share:)

Let's see what's in the apron pockets today.

Themed playing cards (bones), gum wrapper, a rock, a handkerchief (we have had runny noses over here), a receipt, a mail order magazine request, a milk tab, a marker to mark off chores done, a small book, and a animal info card. Very full today.

We have been in the garden a lot lately and I am enjoying my calendulas, poppies, and chrysanthemums (they spread from last year:)

On to other flowers. Our clay crown of thorns didn't work out so well. It seems if you pull out a thorn it may or may not take out a chunk of the "Crown". So, we replaced it with a wreath, which looks quite pretty as it acquires flowers and loses thorns:)

Here is a project my husband it working on. So, we can be more self sustaining. A front yard veggie garden. He removed the rock and replaced it with dirt.(it was a long hard job!)

I have just been trying to get prepared for this upcoming new arrival:) That includes making sure all birthdays, first communions and arriving guests are all taken care of. It also has occurred to me that the apples and tomatoes will be ready about the same time the baby should be arriving. Oh boy!!

Take care!

A mother's poem

2011-03-31T12:08:00.000-07:00

Lord, give me patience when wee hands
Tug at me with their small demands.

Give me gentle, smiling eyes,
Keep my lips from hasty replies.

Let not weariness, confusion, and noise
Obscure my vision of life's fleeting joys.

So when in the future my house is still,
No bitter memories its silence may fill.

~Author unknown

thank you Joy for sharing this poem.

Above my stove some inspiriational decoration

2011-03-25T09:01:00.000-07:00

I love Tasha Tudor's artwork. IT's so simple and sweet. I decided to get a little bit Tasha Tudorish. I painted a little sparrow above my stove. (started to draw a little mouse but it wasn't working out so I erased it)

I want to put some kinda of quote next to the bird. Actually, I want a bible verse that would be also a reminder and a prayer to me in my daily work.

I have a few in mind, but nothing is really set in stone or set in the wall....

Do any of you have suggestions? Something from Psalms, or Proverbs, or perhaps from a prayer?

Here are some I was thinking of.

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling

Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul (Psalm 143:8).”

Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through him who strengthens me

You have heard of un-birthdays, have you heard of un "to-do" lists?

2011-03-24T16:26:00.000-07:00

About a year ago, I was at a friends house. We were celebrating her son's birthday and after the kids were done eating their cake most of them went outside. Her little girl gasped at my son and said, "he didn't take his plate to the sink".

I apologized to the mother and explained to the little girl, that my son was not trying to be to be rude it just isn't our custom at home.

At our house, we have an assigned person to do "bus boy duty". Basically this person pulls the dish pan tote out from under the sink, clears the whole table and wipes it down. I did this because it was getting very messy and a bit dangerous (I use glass plates) to have them all clear their own plate.

The dynamics of everyone's household is different.

Someone, coming into my house at 1:00 might think or say, "oh my, very messy". That's because I have to hold off on lot of housework until after school is done.

If you come into my home you may notice a messy toddler bed. I notice that a 3 yr old tried very hard to make his own bed (and I am not going to do it over because he was very proud of himself).

You might see flour all over my floor, because a 2 yr old wanted to help roll out the tortillas. Hey, life is short...why not let her help?

We all have our routines and the reason why we do this or that. Because it is our life. Our situation.

So, dear ladies on to my "un to-do list".

Comments about a lady's home can really hurt. The home is a reflection on us.

Now, if you have been hurt by comments and are beating yourself up over a messy house or the million things on your "to-do"list that didn't get done, I want you to now make a another list (perhaps in your spiritual diary) one that lists the things you did do that were not on the "to-do list".

Here is a sample one.

(I am not against efficiency or tidy houses!!! I strive daily for this!)

1. I taught my little boy how to tie his shoes
2. I didn't finish the laundry, instead I cuddled my little girl
3. I let the kids stay up 15 minutes later to finish the last chapter in "Robinson Crusoe"
4. I made fresh lemonade with the kids
5. I stayed up late talking with my husband (and cuddling too!)
6. I visited a sick friend and brought them flowers

This truly will help you especially if you are getting frustrated.

I am trying to be an understanding mother but......

2011-03-21T08:22:00.000-07:00

My six year old's code name is Nature Boy. Yes indeedy, if there was any name that fit him, this one does like a glove. It use to be, he would bring in any nature object (leaves, rocks, bugs, this included cockroaches, cocoons, etc.) into the house and plunk it on my kitchen counter.

You know that rule? If it has a flat surface, it will accumulate stuff.

I made him a nature box. But....that soon overflowed.

After reading some inspirational and quite cute blogs (including soule mama). I found that many homeschoolers had a "nature center". So, I made a nature table. All things nature can be found at our table. There you will see a mouse (don't ever get a male mouse they like to scent ahem * their home), hermit crabs (these are an easy pet in my opinion), a snail home, a lizard home, a froggy home, a jar of homemade crystals,

a basket of rocks and shells (the shells we found on the beach...you really must wash these in bleach water or it really brings the ocean home to you!)

I really don't mind this nature table, even though it's in my dining room and next to my favorite piece of furniture. I try to arrange things nicely and just in general I am trying to get it cute looking.
My favorite piece of furniture.

However this, is making me itch. On a little outing with the boys. Dad found this and they brought it home for the nature table. Tell me, are you not grossed out too?

However, I know this phase will pass and when it does (though it's lasted a long time :) I will miss his "little ways". I don't want to discourage him from the beauty and wonderment of God's world. I pray I a can be more tolerant.

In the meantime, I need to find a better place for all these soldier men, foams swords, and playing cards (Sunshine's favorites) all these bits and pieces of broken electronics and odd n'ends (Mr. Lashes)and all of Mary's and L.L. kitchen ware!

I love my life.

What kind of Blogs attract you?

2011-03-18T21:45:00.000-07:00

I check out my blog list almost everyday. I read all of the new posts. I really do. I check in on my followers and read their blogs. I might not make a comment, but I do read and take delight in sharing their day.

I know what attracts me to certain blogs, but I am curious about what attracts you?

These are some of the things that I like;

1. A cheerful blog. I will read sad blogs(posts), but I tend to stick with blogs that are trying to stay positive and in general just trying. (it motiviates me!)

2. A blog that isn't too crazy on my eyes. I like a blog that is very open looking.

3. I have a hard time reading long posts (it's hard on my eyes) so, I tend to like shorter posts. However, if your article gets my attention I usually print it out to read.

4. Of course, I love looking in on other homeschooling moms, catholic blogs and money saving ones!

5. Pictures are always nice.

6. I like crafty blogs. I love to see what you have made, baked, accomplished!

Well, I best be off. I have my very first appointment with a chiropractor. I have never been to one, but this tweak in my back has not gone away and I am pretty sure it won't be a good thing to have once I go into labor!

Here is a picture of a berry tart I made for the husband. (this is before lent and I am just salivating looking at it.) I made the crust with almond meal. It worked out pretty good!

Civil War field trip

2011-03-15T14:15:00.000-07:00

On Sunday we took a little trip to watch reanactments of the Civil War. I have a few little guys (and one big guy) that are just nutty about the civil war.

It was a nice day about 85! We rushed after Mass home to change, pack some food and head out. I have to say, I did enjoy myself. I did take some pictures of some of the ladies in their costumes.

Isn't she lovely? And here are two more ladies. I just love the look of these dresses. I am "old soul" that way.

Then of course there was the battles, with lots of cannon shootin' and gun shootin'.
The north.

Then the south.

We suffered some casualties!

This lady was very interesting and gave us some history about spinning. I enjoyed the relaxed way she spoke.

We got to see how they camped and peak inside their tents. This solider was very neat.

Of course, once I saw these prairie bonnets for only $6 dollars, I just had to get one for Mary, one for L.L, and two more for some nieces.....I couldn't help myself!

Family Rosary Encouragment and Stations of the cross for children/shut-ins!

2011-03-12T10:11:00.000-08:00

You don't have to look further than the front page of the newspaper to find reasons to pray! Let us especially remember the poor people in Japan right now!

I want to encourage you to keep perservering with your family rosary.

You will have days or months of little ones fidgeting. You just will!

You will have kids roll their eyes when the rosary time is announced! This is usually when they are teenagers, so it's best to start this tradition at a young age to avoid this.

You will have some kids that say the rosary super loud or super soft or super fast or not at all! (remind them to pray consistently)

You might be the only spouse with the children praying. (more the reason to pray)

You might have babies that want to climb all over you, decide to nurse, not to nurse, to nurse, not to nurse!!

You will have a case of the thirsties, case of the "I really need to go to the bathroom" (when just minutes before the rosary started everyone was running around).

The phone will ring. (ignore it if you can and let the machine take care of it). Someone's diaper will explode (change it quickly and hurry back!).

Soccer practice, ballet practice, dinner, and such will add to the chaos. Find the time, it really is only 15 minutes...you can do it! :)

You might think your kids are too young to sit still for that long? Well, can they sit quietly and watch a video for 15 minutes? I am sure then they can look at a rosary booklet or just sit quietly for 15 minutes. If you start now, it will become a life long habit.

And as you try to keep everyone focused, you will lose your focus (that's okay, you are training them!).

Now, on to the Stations of the Cross. Here is a neat video for those that can not make it to church for the stations of Fridays. It is very nicely done.

Lent begins and some 40 day challenges

2011-03-09T07:04:00.000-08:00

Hello all! I have been getting up a bit earlier than everyone and I have to say, "I Love it"!

It's so quiet in the house and I can drink my cup of coffee quietly and read emails (or post!).

In a couple of hours we should be heading out the door for Mass and to receive ashes on our foreheads. Thus, the beginning of Lent!

Here are some ideas we are using for Lent. My kids are young so they need a lot of visual reminders. I first printed off Lenten calendars from Lacy's site on Catholic Icing. By the way, if you go to her site,she is hosting many give aways!!

By Debi's encouraging post, I was reminded of "alms-giving". So, we set up a big jar and taped pictures of children that need help.

I saw this idea but wasn't so sure about using toothpicks. So, using clay, golf tees and brown paint we made our own "crown of thorns".

Using a story from "Devotional Stories for Little Folk" (Meg,Seth, Greg and Becca) I came up with a crown of thorns that replaces the thorns and puts in a flower when a sacrifice is done. Each of the kids has their own specific color. We are aiming for a beautiful crown for Our Lord.

In the story with Seth,Meg,Greg and Becca they draw a crown of thorns and then color a flower on the end of a thorn when they make a sacrifice.

There are also 40 item pantry challenges. Daily you put a non-perishable food item in a box for the poor.

There is the 40 bag declutter and donate challenge. You go through your entire house and donoate usable items to a good charity.

There is the "no complain" 40 day challenge (that I just made up for myself)Not one complaint, not one negative conversation in my head, not one sigh, nada.

Catch ya later :)

Well, I best get going!

A dolly give-away at Quiet home.

2011-03-03T06:29:00.000-08:00

Tina at The Quiet Home is hosting a give-away of a little dolly that she knitted. She is a real cutie and maybe you should go over and enter...you might just be the lucky one! You can also check out more of Tina's dolls when you visit her blog.

Sundays

2011-03-02T14:15:00.000-08:00

Sunday is my play day. I try to do the least amount of housework (whithout calling on the cockroaches), I try to plan ahead some meals or at least easy meals (so, it's mama's day of rest too:), and I like to play.

This Sunday (that has already passed..dear me, I am so behind!) was a lovely bluey, cloudy, windy day. What better way to pass the time then fly kites and go for a bike ride? So, that's exactly what we did.

I bought the kites at Target when they were on clearance. You have to keep your eyes peeled for when the toys go on sale. The kites were about .60 cents a piece. Not bad. A very cheap form of entertainment!

(sorry about the black corner on the upper left side. Years ago a baby ...I am not saying who, got a hold of the camera....why did I leave my purse on the floor that day?....broke the shutter lens)

Here is Mr.Lashes. He was very excited to hold the kite and yet it scared him when he felt the strength of the line in his hands. I remember that feeling too when I was little.

Of course Nature Boy was a little concerned when it went too high up.

The kite flying ended when Dad brought out a first time egg from one of our younger chickens. Compare that, with one from an older Wyandotte chicken.

(Yes, yes I have chickens in the suburb. You have to bloom where you are planted right? Though I would love to move to the country. I have to work with what I have:).

After that, we realized that the kite had been forgotten and now was stuck in our tree. The line was unreachable...or was it? While the hubby went off the garage. I decided that since I was so nimble and in perfect condition to climb scrawny trees to retrieve the line and thereby save my husband all the work.

Let's just say, that he wasn't to happy that his 6 month pregnant wife decided to do that (though the kids were fascinated) and asked that I get down. Now, that is something...how to get down? The belly was a lot harder to manage getting down. I finally managed to do, into his arms, which would of been romantic, but he was fixated on that kite.

We did manage to get the kite! Ah, good times:)

Large Family Logistics-my review.

2011-02-28T20:58:00.000-08:00

I just wrote out this whole review...and when I went to publish it, it came out blank!

Ah well, back to the beginning!

I like this book... a lot! There now, how's that? Just kidding.:)

The author wrote this book intially as a handbook to pass down to her daughters. After reading it and implementing some of the ideas, I think I just might buy a few more copies to pass to my daughters!

This book is an excellent "spritual cheerleader".

The author is a Christian homeschooling mama of nine children. Kinda of hard to argue if she is organized or not when she has nine homeschooled kids on her plate!

(At the same time I was also reading "Smart Martha's Guide to Busy Moms" and "A Sane Woman's guide to Raising a Large family". Though these books were written by Catholic woman and very helpful, I felt "Large Family Logisitcs" more helpful to me spiritually)

Kim (author) really puts everything into focus as our jobs as mothers, educators,and wives. She addresses again and again how to work to "glorify God". She shows us how to keep God in priority. She uses her time so wisely that she is able to fit more "God" activities through out her day, and shows you how to do it too!

She also reminds us that we are always teaching our children, through our work, attitudes, what we do spiritually (or not do spritually), what we say, and even through our sighs!

This was a good reminder to me. Especially with my family of littles, that my whole home (not just homeschool hours!) is a classroom, and that it's going to be a bit messy and crazy, but I must perservere to teach them how to be responsible, helpful and to work cheerfully...and I will reap the rewards one day!

It is written in a very clear, organized way. The book itself is large and opens flat if you need to read and multitask!

She goes through steps to help you with specific days for laundry, kitchen day, town day, gardening day, The Lord's day, Deep cleaning day, and office day.

She recommends a home managment book. This idea and some of her helpful hints (like setting a timer to work quickly) are familiar with flylady.

She breaks down the day to show you how to make a quiet hour, a reading hour, afternoon chore time, and more. Some of these ideas seem familiar, from a book called "Teaching the Triviuum" co-authored by Laurie Bluedorn. (she does mention Laurie Bluedorn in "Large Family..". This is also a good read ;)

I have seen first hand the benefits of using this book and I am one happy (more productive) mama! I highly recommend it!

In my apron pockets

2011-02-23T21:28:00.000-08:00

Today at 4:00 Sunshine left. :(

My little Sunshine that is... He had caught a stomach bug and couldn't hold down anything. I called my mom for some advice and though I was doing everything I have been taught to do with a sick child, he wasn't drinking or eating for me.

My mom said, "Would you like me to bring to my house, for some one-on-one TLC?"
"No," I stammered. How could I have my sick little one leave me...it wrenched my heart. She understood.

As I sat near him on the couch, chatting with her some more. Sunshine (who has been quiet all day) spoke very quietly, "I want to go to grandma's house".

I was sad. He wanted to leave me?

"Ok, I told him and let my mom know she could come to pick him up. She arrived with my younger brother (all the nephews love Uncle Joe). My mom sat next to him on the couch...and if by miracle, he had so much to tell her, he was all smiles with Uncle Joe. What the?

"Really mom, he has been lying there like a slug all day and I can't even get him to suck on a popsicle, drink gatorade or chew on one saltine. I have been sitting next to him, cuddling him and giving his little feet a massage."

"Honey, I know. Sometimes they just like the little one-on-one attention. I will bring him back tomorrow. He will be fine I guarantee."

And indeed, he is well on his way on to recovery. I called later this evening and already he has been munching on crackers and drinking gatorade. I could even hear him laugh as he watched a funny movie with grandma.

I miss him very much, it's just not the same around here. (yes, I know, I know it's only been a few hours:)

My heart goes out to the mothers who have a child that is seriously sick. If I can barely bear it when my kid has a cold, how do these women do it? I know sometimes they must leave the child overnight in the hospital. And here I am like a crybaby and he is with my mother? God be with them.

Now, I am giving you a grandview of my belly. Yes, it's growing at an alarming rate. Seriously, I was having trouble getting out of bed the other day!

I am wearing my purple flowered apron. I have come into the habit of wearing one everyday ( I am cute like that).

The women of long ago had the right idea. Wear presentable clothes, even dare I say, "nice" clothes during the day, wear your apron then if you need to go someplace....ta da all neat and clean. No worries. I need to make a few more, so I can be even "cuter like that".:)

Anywho, here is what is in my pockets today.

Some jacks, for some reason the kids got very interested in playing jacks. (though they have their own versions of the game...) Some baby socks I found behind the couch, a footlet, half a crayon and a sticky throat lozenge. I know, very interesting. It actually makes me smile.

Your family rosary- Please Write In!

2011-02-20T14:28:00.000-08:00

At Fatima, Our Lady asked, that we pray the rosary everyday.

And of course there is the quote, "the family that prays together, stays together."

I am hosting a "Your Family Rosary", I hope you all will write in and share how you make this seemingly simple yet daunting task, doable. Hopefully, with all of your good advice other families will be encouraged to pray the family rosary (or the rosary themselves) daily.

First of all, let me say this. It is very important to pray the daily rosary (or Our Lady would not of asked us).

Second, when you begin this devotion (if you haven't already) many obstacles will come your way. MANY! Then, of course you will know it is something that God wants and the devil hates.

When the distractions come either ignore them or take care of them and carry on.

Christ:
It is not always enought to make good intentions in the morning. You must also reacall and renew them during the day.

Put your trust in My help. Then confidently do your best to follow your resolutions. If you fail, renew your intention at once and begin again. I will judge you more by your efforts than by your failures.

Taken from the book "Daily bread".

I will share with you our method or what works for us for praying the rosary.

Every family is different. I have a family of "littles" the eldest child being 6yrs old. So, keep in mind that what we do works for us especially with the ages we have.

I always work in "baby steps".

Seven yrs ago, every night, we prayed the prayers that were in the rosary with the baby and toddler. (As a couple we prayed the rosary)

Then (I can't recall when) we started to pray one decade with the children.

Now, we graduated to the rosary. The benefits I see are immense! It has become so routine that if by chance we are rushing about or it's a "out and about" kind of day, the children immediately reconize that we haven't prayed yet!

We usually pray right before naptime in the day or right before bedtime. This is a "quiet down" period in our days. Then after the rosary, the littliest of the "littles" are put down for nap or for bedtime.

We sit during the rosary. No, we don't kneel. We found that there is less fidgeting, when ours are seated. A few sitting with dad on one couch, a few sitting with mom on the other couch. I am usually holding the baby and letting her drink her bottle.

We don't give out rosaries (not even the big beaded ones) to the children. Once in a while nature Boy will use one. We found the rosaries another thing to fidget with, or play with, which we did not want to become a habit.

I do have big beaded rosaries, glow n' the dark rosaries and a rather nice felted rosary. I do bring these out time to time to see if they can hold them ~~without flinging them or putting the around their feet~~ nicely:)

Usually, hubby starts the rosary. Nature boy gets two decades, Sunshine, gets one decade, I get one decade, and dh gets the last decade. Before the decade we name the mystery and give a short explanation. For example; the fifth joyous mystery, Finding in the Temple.

Every year Our Lady and St.Joseph went to celebrate the feast of the passover. Remember the passover? (I give a short account of this and how Jesus is now sacrificed instead of a lamb). This also incorpratates catechism (double score, Yes!)

Mr. Lashes sits near dad and just recently he has started to "help" dad with his decade. :)

Mary sits next to me on the couch and looks only at "Jesus books". She and Mr. Lashes are allowed to hold their "fi-fi's".

This is what works for us. We have found that "less is more" with our children. Too many things are more of a distraction than a help. But, that is our family.

And other ideas......

When I was growing up we had these and placed them plastic sleeves in a three ring binder. They are a lovely set of illustrated rosary pictures.

I do know of one family that has "rosary baskets" that are filled with only things they are allowed to touch during the rosary. Once the rosary is finished they are put away. Inside the baskets are rosary booklets, holy cards, a small statue of Our lady and the like.

There is this idea, that I just love. One day, when I get better at crochet I can make these lovely crochet roses. Which, even if we can't use during the rosary they can be used for other feast days or for the month of May. Don't you think?

Busy homemaker

2011-02-17T20:35:00.000-08:00

So, last night I set up my own alarm clock on my side of the bed.

I am trying to get up earlier.

I forgot that the clock was plugged into the outlet that you can turn off by a switch on the wall! When hubby came in to bed (I always fall asleep with the light on, usually reading) he hit the wall switch...and of course the alarm went off with it. Silly me!

Yet, I did wake up earlier and was able to start everything earlier. This included finally getting around to juicing a mountain of oranges for orange juice that I froze. (I did not have all the oranges pictured here!)

While breakfast was cooking (an easy ham and cheese crustless quiche)I baked up some chicken breasts. I tend to cook a lot of meat at once, so I can stretch it out over days.

With these chicken breast I am planning to make the following; spicy chicken pieces to go in salad (for my carb free husband) and to put in burritos. Chicken pieces for chicken soup and perhaps chicken with a creamy mushroom sauce over rice or veggies. ( I don't know if the chicken is going to stretch that far!)

In the afternoon, after the rosary we went outside. It was a beautiful day. I'd say about 76 and sunny. My Calendula flowers are finally blooming. If you are feeling really ambitious you can make calendual oil. Here is the recipe;

Calendula Oil

2 oz dried Calendula petals
1 cup olive oil or almond oil
natural vitamin E capsules (for every 4 oz of oil)

Combine petals with oil in blender.Put the lumpy mixture in clean jar(s) and keep on hot , sunny windowsill for two to three weeks, shaking them daily. Pur the infused mixture into a cloth bag and squeeze out the oil. Let the oil settle for a few days before straining it throught good quality paper towels. Add Vitamin E capsule (this should keep if from going rancid)

Well, I best be off now. The kitchen needs a mop and I am sure that there is laundry that needs to be folded (was there any doubt?) ha!

By the way, I was thinking of hosting a "What is your family's method or tradition of praying the rosary"? I want to do this to encourage all families to pray the rosary together. I know some things work for us. Perhaps you have ways that work out for you that could help another family?

Would any of you feel up to writing in about your family rosary?

Isn't it funny how a 15 minutes rosary(or there abouts) can seem like such a challenge when we first begin? When it is such a struggle to pray together I know the devil really REALLY does not want it to happen.

However hard, persevere and ask Our Lady to protect your good intentions! And remember....(I have shared this before)

Live your life in such a way that
when your feet hit the floor in the morning,
Satan shudders & says...
"Oh .... she's awake!"

"fight the good fight"
Josette

Come to Tea Tuesdays.....boy, am I pooped!

2011-02-15T21:09:00.000-08:00

Wow, put

a fork in me I am done. Seriously, I am so tired today. I think this little one is doing some rapid growing. All of a sudden, I have had to move to maternity clothing.

It just occured to me that I have about 3 months to go!!!

It just occured to me that Nature's Boy first communion is on my due date!!!!

Here is a picture of L.L. at a airport museum we went to on Sunday. They had some really cool planes from World War II.

An Explanation of the Holy Mass in union with The Passion and Death of Our Divine Lord

2011-02-13T17:00:00.000-08:00

The most important prayers are in the Mass. I don't know about you, but it isn't always easy for me to use a missal in Mass. Little ones need me.

In church we try to sit up front, so the Littles can see what is happening. I can see what the priest is doing and follow with some of the prayers. This also keeps everyone less distracted.

A good while back our parish priest printed this (...wow, that is a tongue twister!) in our church bullentin. It's very helpful. I don't know where the orignally was written, so I am sorry I can't give credit.

If you can not use your missal at least your eyes can follow the movements of the priest and contemplate that. (can not seem to move the Name of Jesus to the column on the right. So, it really should be on one side what the priest does and on the right what that signifies Our Lord doing.)

At Mass The Priest Jesus
Enters the Sanctuary ..........................................................................Enters Garden of Olives
Begins prayers at the foot of the Altar...........................................Begins prayer in the garden
Says the confiteor.....................................................................Faints and falls down in Agony
Ascends steps and kisses the Altar...................................................Is betrayed by Judas with a kiss
Goes to the book at Epistle Side.....................................................Is led prisoner to Annas
Reads the Introit .............................................................................Is falsely accused by Annas
Goes to Middle, recites “Kyrie Elieison”..............................Is brought to Caiphas;denied thrice by Peter
Turns to People and says “Dominus Vobiscum”.............................Looks at Peter and converts him
Goes to book and reads Collects and Epistle............................................Is led to Pilate
Goes to middle, then to Gospel side.............................................Is taken to Herod and mocked
Returns to the middle of the Altar..............................................Is led back to Pilate
Offertory
Uncovers the chalice................................................Is Stripped of His garments
offers the bread and wine........................................Is scourged at the pillar
covers chalice with pall............................................Is corwned with thorns
Washes his hand at Epistle side...............................Is declared innocent by Pilate
Turn to people and says “Orate Fratres”................Pilate says “Behold the man”
Prays in a low voice, the secret prayers...................Is mocked and spat upon
Recites Preface and Sanctus-bell rings......................Barabbas is freed

Canon of Mass
Makes memento for Living.............................................Carries cross to Calvary
Continues to pray in a low voice....................Meets His Mother and the other pious women
Hold hands over oblation-bell rings...........Soldiers take hold of Christ our Lord
Blesses the bread and winde with sign of the corss five times......Is nailed to the Cross
Consecration
Consecrates the Host, adores and elevates it.............Christ is raised on the cross
Consecrates the wind and elevates the chalice.......Blood of Christ flows from five wounds
Prays in a low voice..........................Hangs on the cross. Sees His mother kneeling
Says aloud “Nobis quoque peccatoribus”................Prays for all mankind
Recites aloud the “Pater Noster”, Our Father........Speaks the seven words on the corss
Breaks the Sacred Host.............................................Dies on the cross
Drops a particle of Host into the chalice...............Christ’s soul descends into Limbo
Says “Agnus Dei”...............................Those standing by acknowledge Christ to be the Son of God
Communion
Receives the Body and Blood of Christ.............................Is laid in the sepluchre
Cleanses the chalice.........................Christ’s body is annointed in the sepulchre
Arranges the chalice on the Altar again............................Rises from the dead
Turns to people and says “Dominus Vobiscum”..............Appears to His Mother and Disciples
Reads prayers at Epistle side-Post communion...............Teaches for forty days
Turns to people and says last “Dominus vobiscum”......Bids farewell to His Disciples; ascends into Heaven
Gives the blessing.......................................sends the Holy Spirit to His Apostles
Reads the last Gospel.......................................Apostles preach the Gospel to all Nations

Valentine roses

2011-02-11T16:29:00.000-08:00

I looked up youtube.com on how to make roses. I was going to make a tutorial for you, but really my camera isn't all that great and these ladies REALLY know what they are doing!

Mine aren't this sophisticated...yet ;)I love that this is a "no sew" project!

Also on Crunchy Catholic's blog she shows how to make a crochet heart headband...very very cute.

I am trying not to buy any more fabric at the fabric store, so I was very pleased to cut strips of fabric from left over St. Day costumes to use for this!

I cut stips 1 1/2 inch wide and about 24" long. Then making a knot at the very end I start to fold the ribbon around the knot, but really you should look on the youtube video!

I cut two pieces of of felt into heart shapes (I guess one would of worked!) and strung some elastic through.

Then using the hot glue gun I glued the roses to the heart shaped felt.

I measured Mary's head (this I do by trial and error;) and sewed the headband closed.

The result a very BIG rose headband! I am not sure if this is wearable in public as it is almost as big as her head, but she likes it! Sorry about the blurry photo, but you know how it goes!

Now, my mind starts to wander....I could make Easter bonnet hats, pretty bracelets, perhaps attatching some around a picture frame, to little shoes....

(and I wonder how I get all this stuff?) :)

Taking out the pretties to make Valentines

2011-02-10T21:32:00.000-08:00

We have been working on Valentines all week :)

Let me tell you, there has been a frenzied excitment to be working with these glitter stickers. I had to restrain them from putting all their alloted stickers on one Valentine.

I actually stole a few myself to make a Valentine for dh...I couldn't help myself.

Maternity denim skirt

2011-02-10T20:52:00.000-08:00

Well, I haven't gotten to make more roses for you. The sickness has passed on.

Right now, I am shopping online. Oh, I have to be careful when I shop online. It is so easy to click the "buy" button.

I am always on the look

out for denim skirts. They are a main stay in my wardrobe.

It is hard for me to find longer denim skirts that are reasonably priced. Well, I just found one at Motherhood.com that is long and at $19.99 I feel justified buying two!

Come to Tea Tuesdays Back from the Ultrasound

2011-02-08T13:33:00.001-08:00

All is well. The radiologist came in and said everything looked just fine.

I actually have been doing better this week, I had stopped fretting and just wanted to know so I could be prepared.

I am very happy that everything is good.

I bet you are wondering if it's a boy or girl huh?

I have no idea! I like the surprise.

Talk to ya soon!

Manic Monday and I need your opinion

2011-02-07T20:24:00.000-08:00

I woke this morning, not wanting to get up. I was tired, and I knew once I left my bedroom, the day had "officially" begun for me.

I said a quick prayer to God asking for perseverance

(Let me tell you, if I had a candy jar it would of been empty today)

Of course, it was a hectic morning (aren't all Mondays?) Getting the school work done, meals on the table, some laundry, some cuddling with the little ones, wiping, changing, reminding, wiping, washing dishes, sweeping, changing, schooling, reading, (oops just sliced into my finger trying to cut the zucchini)cooking!

By 2 o' clock I was done. Put a fork in me ....done.

Time for the Little's to nap.

I pulled out the "pretties" as I call them. We made some Valentine's :)
How is it something so small can lift my spirits?

By 3:45 the Little's were up from naps, everyone had a snack, shoes on and we were on our way to the boys lessons. At 3:50 Mary threw up in the car. Turn the car around, park car in a parking lot, undress Mary, wipe her down, and head home.

Let me just say this, I am out of laundry detergent. I have tried my best to disinfect the house.I pray that no one else picks up this bug.

Enough of this talk!

Now, I would like your opinion, because sometimes I get carried away. I know it's hard to believe, but I really do.

I have learned how to make cloth roses!I can't wait to show you....my other roses! But you will indeed have to wait! I am still tweaking them, and hope to ...but now I have said too much already!

So, I added a couple of roses to Mary's sage green dress. Do you think it's too much ? I still haven't decided about the pockets. I wonder if I should leave the roses and leave off the pockets or the other way around? The rose and pockets are just pinned on waiting for me to make up my mind.

I asked my Hubby, but I am not sure men really know about this sort of thing. (he thinks I am beautiful in sweats and a t-shirt)

A Muslim Cries out to Jesus

2011-02-06T20:47:00.000-08:00

http://www.cbn.com/media/player/index.aspx?s=/vod/AL32v1_WS

another skirt turned into toddler dress!

2011-02-04T22:15:00.000-08:00

Yet another of my old tiered skirts made into a dress for Mary. This was done way back in October. Very easy let me tell you. I like this one a lot because of all the color in it.

If I can sew, anyone can...and I mean that!

You musn't mind me, I don't get out very much and I just love sharing my sewing with all of you. So, if I seem like a big show-off. I am.

Handy tip A basket for your small books, holy cards and novenas

2011-02-03T21:37:00.000-08:00

I stole this idea from Hunie!

I don't know about you, but I seem to acquire small devotionals, small children's missals, holy cards galore and novenas. Where to store these? Ah ha! How about a nice rectangle wicker basket that will slide easily into the bookcase?

There you go, problem solved.

(I glued some felt to the four bottom corners of the basket so it would not scratch the wood as I slide it in and out.)

Now, what to do with all these rosaries?

Using an old tiered skirt to make a toddler dress

2011-02-03T14:17:00.000-08:00

I am sorry this is not a tutorial! Here is a dress I am working on made from an old tiered skirt of mine (half of the work is done because two rows have already been gathered, and the bottom is already hemmed!). This isn't perfection...just fun sewing!

I basically cut the skirt in half horizontally. With the top portion I use a pattern for her shirt half, the bottom half I gather and pin to the top half. Presto chango! I have a dress for Mary.

I have another tiered skirt that I am going to use for a dress. So, I hope to make a tutorial for that one! :)

The pockets I salvaged from an old maternity blouse that got badly stained.

My corner of the world

2011-02-01T13:28:00.000-08:00

Well, I have my next ultra sound on February 8th. I did put in a call to the radiologist to see if she could give me more reasons as to why they need a better picture of the face. She hasn't called back yet.

I have several shots of the face. I didn't notice anything. However a friend mentioned the mouth area of the baby looked different.

I have googled more info in cleft lips/palettes and the only thing that can be done is surgery when the baby reaches a good weight (I think it is 10 lbs). (that shouldn't be too hard to accomplish since I already have good sized babies...ouch!)

So, really all I can do is wait, and be healthy for this little one! We know nothing for sure and I am just being a big silly here imagining all sorts of things!

In other news (besides watching what is happening in Egypt) I have implemented many of the practices in "Logistics of a Large Family".

The only problem is...that making sure I get all things done, I have not done any crafting or such and it's starting to make me itch :P Aren't I a stinker?

I am starting to get ready for St. Valentine's day. I hope to post an idea I have for a gift for Mary.

I know some Catholics don't celebrate this feast day with the hearts,cards, roses, chocolates, but I do. I figure if St. Valentine could send encouraging notes to imprisoned Christians than I can give out cards with a "Ave" prayed for you and maybe an encouraging note to keep the faith alive! (As well as a incentive such as chocolate *cough* too keep going strong!)

Then of course, I am going to read a children's story about this saint.

I was hoping to get some beeswax to make candles for Candle mas as Gae had on her blog, however, I don't think it's going to happen!
I do of course have oranges at this time of year and if you remember my post from last year, I have a stunning orange centerpiece to go with this feast that the children can create.

God bless you and keep fighting the good fight!!

A bit worried...

2011-01-28T23:15:00.000-08:00

I had an ultrasound recently. I just got a call that they needed to do another one because they couldn't see the face.

I am worried that it could be a cleft lip/ or palette. I know that no amount of worrying will fix this, or that this problem isn't fixable...yet....

If this is God's will so be it, please help me in this new journey. However, I hope all is fine.

Day book January 20th, 2010

2011-01-20T20:57:00.000-08:00

Feeling a bit tired. Also, every time I start to wash the dishes my back kinks up. (it's almost like someone put a tight screw in my tail bone) Not sure what is going on there. (maybe it's mental :)

Wearing jammies :)

Thinking about tomorrow. It's St.Agnes' feast day. I wanted to make some lamb cookies, but just noticed we are out of eggs. Hopefully, tomorrow the hens will have laid some more. Also, excited, tomorrow is ultrasound day.

Looking I see the house it is tidy (not immaculate or perfect mind you:)

The new chore charts are helping. I put these chore charts in plastic sleeves and use dry erase markers to mark down each day what was accomplished.

I have chores that need to be finished BB (before breakfast). I check to make sure BB chores are done right before breakfast, and send back any kid that hasn't accomplished his BB chores.

It's a learning experience for me too. I have to be on my toes to make sure everyone is on track! I like these chore charts because I can detail to what chores they do. Of course Mary's chart is very basic like, "help mommy cook", and tidy up time.

Money saving Mom also has other home management charts. A few I have printed out and they are helping to keep me on track instead of trying to get everything done at once!

I also have been implementing a home management binder recommended from Large Family Logistics (I hope to do a book review for you on this one! thumbs up already!)

Thankful that we were able to make some bulk grocery purchases recently, that is truly a blessing and so helpful.

Creating nothing right now.(well, I am making a baby right?) I am just trying to keep things tidy and our school day productive. We did plant some veggies today!

I am reading Again everything! I will have to one day take a picture of my nightstand so you will see that I mean it!

Picture is of my chore chart. How boring huh? Ah Well! Perhaps you busy moms can use some ideas too?

The Sigh happy syndrome

2011-01-13T19:48:00.000-08:00

I have been having many many moments lately that I give out a sigh of happiness.

The other day I sat on the couch for brief rest. I looked at the mess of toys on the living room floor and was about to call out a "tidy", instead I studied the way the toys laid there.

My boys playing their endless civil war battles with the plastic civil war figurines, had made a very intricate battle scene on some stacked blocks. I could actually see what they had imagined the soldiers were doing. Some lay down in front of a line up of soldiers who appeared to be shooting. Some, where hidden behind blocks as others seem to be lying on the stomachs doing maneuvers. Such imagination! (sigh) (this is not the original scene...just so you know....)

(I take pictures of their scenes before L.L comes like baby Godzilla and destroys them. I am sure all block builders and army men setter uppers would appreciate this.)

There next to the bookshelf is a small pretty basket holding children's books. Mary sat there cross legged looking at a book and mumbling to herself. She had a stack of books on the floor, obviously she had "read" through those. The room was very sunny and she looked so sweet.(sigh)

(We have been trying to go even "video free" and it is showing it's benefits! Mr. Lashes is now listening to stories that I read and I am finding the kids reading more often or looking at their books more often. And....they are playing even more imaginatively. It's probably been the hardest on Mom!)

Yesterday, L.L was so happy as I swung her in the outside swing that she couldn't even giggle. She had the widest smile and her eyes sparkled in excitement. (sigh)

The other night Mr. Lashes got into bed with me (around 3:00 a.m) such a cuddly little fellow! I drifted off to sleep hearing him suck on his fingers. Obviously, not such a "big boy, I can do it myself"! (sigh)

The other night, my husband came in later to bed. I felt him tuck the blanket around me.....(sigh)

Thank you God.

Do you have sigh happy syndrome?

Epiphany Household Blessing

2011-01-09T19:03:00.000-08:00

You will need a piece of blessed chalk and a small container of holy water, sign of our baptism and consecration to the lord, to sprinkle each room in the house.

Head of House: In the (+)name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.

Let the Light of the World shine on this place! Legend gives these names to the Lord's visitors: Caspar, Melchior, and Balthasar.

Their initials sign this doorway, along with four crosses and the numerals of the new year.

(then sign the top of the doorway with blessed chalk in the following manner.)

20+C+m+B+11

Let us Pray: Christus mansionem benedicat. May Christ bless this house! May Christ bless us all, now and forever. All: Amen!

Head of House:

A reading from Paul's Letter to the Galatians: So, then, we should not lose heart in doing what is good, for if we do not grow weary, we shall receive our reward in due time. So then, let us do good for others while we may,especially to those who belong to the household of faith. Deo Gratias.

All: Thanks be to God!

In each room of the house, the priest (or head of the house) prays for God's blessing and sprinkles the room wit holy water.

Living room:

Lord Jesus Christ, you are the Resurrection and the Life. Bless this room, we pray. All: Amen!

Kitchen:

Lord Jesus Christ, you give us our daily bread. Bless this room, we pray. All: Amen!

Dining Room:

Lord Jesus Christ, bring us to the feast of heaven. Bless this room, we pray. All:Amen!

Bedrooms:

Lord Jesus Christ, bring us to the feast of heaven. Bless this room, we pray. All: Amen!

Bathroom:

Lord Jesus Christ, you cleanse us with living waters.Bless this room, we pray. All: Amen!

Head of House: Let us pray as Jesus taught us: Our Father...deliver us from evil. Amen

All those present are sprinkled with holy water.

Head of House: Lord Our God,we ask you to bless this household through all the days to come. We praise you and thank you, Father, Son, and Holy Ghost now and forever. All: Amen!

It is getting easier! (and Epiphany)

2011-01-06T21:27:00.000-08:00

I use to look at other catholic ladies blogs, and just sit at my computer gaping.

They seem have it all together! They home school and have..like 10 kids, their homes are beautiful, their children are right on track with school work, activities, obedience, and...they really know how incorporate the faith in their lives.

I would see all the wonderful things they did on feast days (not just Christmas and Easter!) and salivate over their wonderful ideas, desserts, and colorful photos of their day.

One lovely thing about you ladies, is that you encourage the rest of us, tell us it will get easier. I am now a believer!

Well, I was (still am) determined to do many Catholic feast days, to do them each year (not just a one shot deal) to make them into traditions. I want to teach the kids the faith, show them our faith, have them live the faith, and see how rich and beautiful it is.

So, I started small. (growing up we did celebrate some selected feast day so I wasn't totally in the dark!). I picked feasible days. I did simple things. I printed up prayers, placed them in a three ring binder and started "Our Family prayer book".

I actually started to remember ahead of time what feast days were coming up, and picked up a few things at the store to help celebrate and learn about it.

I tend to keep things simple and it's just best this way as I start out. I am sure through the years I will add more (or maybe not)

On The feast of the Holy Innocents, we went to mass, prayed a special prayer, prayed to end abortion, read out of our picture bible about King Herod,and had powdered donuts to show the sinlessness of the babes who died that day. Easy huh?

IF you haven't noticed my Jesse tree is a work in progress. I am totally ok with that. I add a few ornaments a year. We do one craft a week for the Jesse tree and the children are (at least the 5 and 6 yr old) are understanding how the Jesse/family tree works.

Today, for the feast of the Epiphany we;

1. Went to mass.

2. We prayed a special Epiphany prayer.

3.We had a lovely three kings bread (didn't that turn out great?! (Last year I bought it, and many people use a cake and drop a plastic baby Jesus in for a lucky finder) I know in many European countries this is their "Christmas day" so to speak, and they celebrate and PARTTTYYY on this day!

4.. chocolate coins were given out.

I was going to make a simple potpourri with them with orange peels and cloves, but that didn't happen (you know...for the frankincense). So, I just placed it on the breakfast table as a reminder.

5.We watched "Jesus of Nazareth" (well the part when the three kings came to adore Jesus).

The night before, at dinner, I read out of their Picture bible about the Three Wise men's visit to the manger.

We haven't yet written with our blessed chalk above the doorway to our house the Three Kings blessing C+M+B+20+11 (the initials of the three kings and the new year)

There will be special Epiphany blessed holy water at church that I will be sure to pick up to use in our home.:)

It's a very simple plan, yet the children were delighted and did learn about these three saint's feast day.

The Little train that could has stoped dead in her tracks.

2011-01-04T14:09:00.001-08:00

When I was little, my second grade teacher gave me this name "The Little engine that could". I don't remember saying it, but she said whenever she asked me if I could do it, I would reply, "I think I can".

I have to tell you, I think that is just adorable. However, I have no memory of it. I just had a book, (we moved during the second grade) that has an inscription written to, "the little engine that could". I wonder if it was even me? I wonder if she had me confused with another little blond girl (I was blond way back when).

A few of my resolutions are not taking place.

Some of the more important ones that would set all the other resolutions in place, are just not happening.

One of them being, to wake up earlier. I have gotten into the habit of staying up late. If I would get up earlier, everything would start earlier you know..yada yada yada. (I could make daily mass, perhaps pray, get breakfast started without chaos :)then in the afternoons I could fit in exercise.

Last night, I did it again, I stayed up late, couldn't fall asleep and here we are again.

Such a small resolution is giving me so much trouble.

I have been reading this from "The Imitation of Christ"

Lose not,brother,thy confidence of going forward to spiritual things;there is yet time, the hour is not yet past.

Why wilt thou put off they resolutions from day to day? Arise, and begin this very moment, and say: now is the time for doing, and now is the time to fight; now is the proper time to amend my life.

Wow!!!

Here is another quote that struck me; (by Theodore Roosevelt)

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are."

So with that, I am going to keep trying, and not criticize myself. I am going to work with each situation as it arises and that's that.

Happy New Year

2010-12-31T22:59:00.000-08:00

Wishing you all a lovely New Year! Today we went up north to the snow so the kids could see what a real wintry snow day was like. (I must admit, it is beautiful but I am a sunshine girl. I like warm!)

I couldn't believe how much Mr.Lashes and Mary loved it. They were laughing and throwing snowballs and tasting icicles! Nature boy liked it too, but the other two were ecstatic! Sunshine true to his name, stayed mostly in our van sipping my warm coffee!

On a good note, I have found homes for all the new Christmas goodies we have received. I must admit two days after December 25 I was feeling stressy. The house was in chaos, toys and things everywhere. I actually had to call my baby sister up, to ask for advice (her home is wonderfully tidy). I am now resolved this year....to...

Not to just put out fires, but to stop them before they start and that means making sure all the kids follow through on the directions I give them.

I have made some improvements with myself. Mostly these involve with staying on task and trying to always look ahead with the meal planning.

One problem I have is with the house work. I actually don't mind cleaning. I am a hard worker, however I am not a good manager. I just ordered a couple of books one Jessica mentioned (that I hope will help me manage better) called Large Family Logistics, and also This one :)

The stretches between mopping all our floor was getting longer. I would wait until night after the kiddies were asleep so that way no one would step on my wet floor before they were ready. Well, to tell you the truth, by the time everyone was in bed, I was tired too and wanted my "rest time".

Watching episodes of "How Clean is Your House", always seems to motivate me (and no, my house is not dirty like that!). I went and bought a swiffer wet/dry mop and I have mopped my floor three days in a row! Easy Peasy! (I think this is good for quick tidies, but I will have to break out my mop and vinegar solution for the nitty gritty!)

(By the way the UK episodes of this show are much better. I was disappointed that I ordered seasons one and two (thinking that these were the bbc ones and they are not, some of the episodes are raunchy and I doubt I keep them.)

Well, tomorrow is a feast day, I don't have too much planned for it. I am sure the kids will still be preoccupied with their new Christmas toys. I think I will keep my feet up tomorrow! God bless you.